<p>Is it possible for sexual attraction to change?</p>
<p>In HS I loved bigger girls, that were quite curvy. Not huge but very big asses and breasts with small waists and most of them were Latina. I really liked those types of girls and they were the only ones who could really fire me up and give me incredible arousal. </p>
<p>Though once I went away to college for a few years and left the city where I went to HS, those girls I was previously attracted to weren’t there anymore. Now at the college in a suburban area there is mostly skinny white girls which really lacked any curves. Some of them had curves, but it was only because they were just so skinny, that even the smallest widening of hips made them look curvy.</p>
<p>Now it seems that i am attracted to skinny girls, and I get aroused by the skinny girls and not so much to the curvy ones. The problem is in my mind I don’t like the way that the skinny girls look, but that is now what gets me aroused, and I love how the curvy girls look but they don’t get me aroused as intensely anymore. </p>
<p>So an example in HS I like girls like Vida Guerra & Mayra Veronica. Now after moving away I get extremely aroused by skinny girls like Jessica Stroup and Kieran Knightly.</p>
<p>My natural tendencies are to still look at the curvy women, and not the skinny. So that’s the problem. </p>
<p>Whats up with this, to be honest I liked my old ways alot better.</p>
<p>Hmm most women don’t have bodies anywhere near the extremes of Mayra Veronica or Keira Knightley…I live in a diverse city, and the typical white girl is not a stick and the typical latina is not that curvy…you know what I think? you’re just a typical horny guy, you get turned off by hot girls everywhere. in your old city there where lots more curvy latina types, and that turned you on. now you’re surrounded by skinnies, you’re turned on. there is no problem. you’re young, you’re male, and you like girls. I don’t see the problem.</p>
<p>It seems like curvy, voluptuous Latinas are hard to come by these days, at least to me. I attend one of the most diverse universities in a city with one of the top three largest Puerto Rican populations in the country, and I still don’t come across them often. And the same thing as you - I have become so used to being attracted to skinny white girls that I am not as strongly attracted to curvy Latinas as I was before. I still want Latinas more and feel more naturally attracted to them, I just don’t find them often.</p>
<p>Sorry, my previous comment should read “you get turned ON by hot girls everywhere” not turned off. Yeah my point was that you’re basically going to get turned on by pretty girls everywhere…when you were surrounded by curvy types, you liked them, not you’re surrounded by skinny types, you like them. </p>
<p>I really don’t see why this is a problem…but if it is, I guess your “solution” would be…move to Miami? lol :)</p>
<p>They are where I live and basically everywhere I’ve been. Of course there are many exceptions, but overall I think the typical white girl is skinny and less curvy and the typical Latina is very curvy.</p>
<p>In your situation, you take what you can get even though you’re not necessarily attracted to the girls…</p>
<p>I live in NY, so it’s pretty diverse. But yeah, most people in this country are white, and like 2/3 of them are overweight or obese, so skinny white girls aren’t that common anymore. I know latina/black women have a tendency to be larger though, but i definitely don’t see most of them being curvy like Beyonce, or white girls being skinny like Keira Knightly. And once I leave NY, basically every city I visit in the rest of America, the women everywhere are fat, and I don’t mean fat as in “curvy”. I think of curvy as Beyonce, as in beautiful, healthy, and voluptous looking.</p>
<p>Well the original city where I went to HS was in NYC and most latinas in my HS would be incredibly more curvy than anything the media puts out. I mean it was a whole other degree. Girls I went to HS with would have such big butts that Jlo, Vida and Beyonce are put to shame. The borough where I live is around 90% Hispanic, and this is why the HS were as such. </p>
<p>I then went away to college in western NY and the girls there are all really skinny. A complete opposite of what I came from. Im talking about the girls being under 5’5" and some even under 100lbs. All just very skinny, and while they may not be as extreme as Keira Knightly, ive seen some that may be even more extreme. </p>
<p>When I go back home to nyc, I am almost in heaven. Though I don’t get aroused like I used to. Instead I get aroused to the skinnys. While there is nothing wrong with them, in my head they just don’t look attractive. I don’t find it attractive when you can see a girls rib cage and pelvic bones sticking out. </p>
<p>Idk maybe attracting really is dynamic to increase reproduction. I guess you will dynamically change to suit your placement and type of woman.</p>
<p>attracted to skinny girls? go for Asians… lol. much skinnier than white girls. You are a guy and it is normal for you to be aroused…it will be a problem if you are not…</p>
<p>“Hey, did you see that hot girl back there?”
“No”
“She passed RIGHT BY YOU!!!..How could you NOT see her?”
“Well, whadja mean by hot? She was probably only 98.6 degrees…”
“Oh, God…”</p>
<p>The OP makes me see (once more!) that every single day, I get a little more ashamed of been Hispanic. </p>
<p>Thank you Hispanic men for judging people on the basis of “big butts” and “big tits”, thank you. Your intellectual contribution to society is great.</p>
<p>^ It has nothing to do with judging people, only being physically attracted to people. I see no problem with a guy being attracted to girls by the size of their tits and ass. We all have our preferences. </p>
<p>Sucks that you feel ashamed of being Hispanic…</p>