Checking My Privilege: Character as the Basis of Privilege - a freshman perspective

<p>Look, if “check your privilege” were only being used when people said super-clueless things on the level of “Let them eat cake,” I really wouldn’t have much of problem with it. But it has gone well beyond that.</p>

<p>New York Magazine coincidentally just posted an article about Harvard Kennedy School of Public Policy deciding to add training on power and privilege to its first year orientation after a protest by students decrying privilege: </p>

<p><a href=“Harvard’s Kennedy School Adds Privilege-Checking to New-Student Orientation [Updated]”>http://nymag.com/thecut/2014/05/harvard-adds-privilege-checking-to-orientation.html&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

<p>The article links to a tumblr where students speak about their experiences with privilege, and it is indicative of the problem that I have with the concept. Several posts complain that race and gender don’t come up in class discussion enough, others complain that too many people give ignorant opinions on issues that they don’t have personal experience with, and another complains about feeling like a token and being expected to speak for an entire group.</p>

<p>So, to recap, “it is bad that we don’t talk about race and gender, but when we do, members of the majority really shouldn’t give their opinions (unless they tally with mine), and also shouldn’t look to me to speak up, because it makes me feel like a token and the class isn’t a safe space anyway.” No wonder the tumblr also includes posts by white men who say that they are afraid to speak about issues of race and gender for fear of having their opinions dismissed or causing offense.</p>

<p>Someone is upset that general leadership classes don’t include discussion of the specific challenges faced by mothers (note that the Kennedy School does have its own Women and Public Policy Program, and this year offered a course on Women and Leadership that included discussions of family leave and work/life balance issues). Someone else is upset that case studies focus on the US, Latin America, Europe, Africa and Asia, but not “smaller , less populous low GDP island nations” (which only “rarely” come up - what injustice!). Then, we get into the realm of the subjective. A student claims his contributions are “systematically” less valued because he has an accent. Another claims that male students are routinely praised more than female students, whose raised hands are also ignored (which may in fact happen to an extent, but funny thing, I’ve been a female student my whole life in several different academic contexts, and I’ve never noticed).</p>

<p>There’s also a particularly interesting case of two competing entries. The first seems like by far the most compelling instance of privilege/microaggression/racism: a student claims that a white student was “nearly applauded” and later praised for his courage for admitting that he walks to the other side of the street when he sees groups of black men. Down the page, the white student responds - the context was that in a discussion, he mentioned an incident in which he was walking in a high-crime, predominantly African-America neighborhood in which several gay men had recently been beat up by groups of black teenagers. The student, who is a gay man, crossed the street upon seeing a group of young black men, offered that he felt guilty about using race in this way, and said that he thought it raised an uncomfortable question about how to balance concern for stereotyping with a perhaps legitimate fear. If he’s telling the truth at all, that shouldn’t be the kind of discourse that is beyond the pale at the Kennedy school or anywhere else. </p>

<p>There are ways of productively raising the topic of privilege. Maybe the orientation class on privilege will be one of them. This isn’t. </p>

<p>@actingmt - I was not trying to make a political statement. Yes, Nagin was also ineffective at best and verging on negligent and/or corrupt. Nobody said that minorities can’t act (or not) out of a place of privilege - economic and power in this case. The point is, poor choices were made about how to get people to safety based on faulty assumptions (by all kinds of people with political power) about what was possible for many NOLA residents. I don’t think that anyone wanted people not to escape or wanted people to die - they just didn’t take many of the situational limitations into account. So . . . take home . . . if you recognize ways in yourself that your view might be colored by privilege in different areas you can make better decisions, better policy, more effective practices.</p>

<p>An example . . . my son was recently a volunteer in a music organization that pairs musicians with students in several Title 1 inner city elementary schools. They had a day of training and one break out session dealt with the idea of recognizing those assumptions in your own case and thinking about how you might better help your student based on what that student’s reality is. You may tell your student to practice daily, but what if they share a room with a baby sister? Live in an apartment with close neighbors? Have a parent who works graveyard and sleeps in the afternoon? There all all kinds of ways that a kid might be limited based on circumstances that a middle class suburban kid might not anticipate as readily. Don’t assume that because you have a practice room at home and dedicated practice time that everyone does. If you want your kid to succeed with their instrument then work with the circumstances as they are for them not as they are for you or as you wish them to be. The first step to that is self awareness.</p>

<p>“The problem is that statement is a response to what could easily be viewed as an exclusionary announcement by transgendered students who may no longer identify as female after being admitted.”</p>

<p>Except that it’s not. No one is telling them not to attend the XYZ Club meeting. It is just that not every minute thing needs to be called out all the lifelong day. </p>

<p>Not to mention the fact that if there is anywhere on Earth that women should feel OK about identifying and celebrating themselves AS WOMEN, it is on the campus of a women’s college. </p>

<p>Lots of generally applicable statements exclude somebody. Using them isn’t an act of hostile aggression, unless one chooses to take it as such. We shouldn’t need to change our language to accommodate every single extreme case that could possibly arise.</p>

<p>Right. If the XYZ club announcement is “Run, don’t walk, to the XYZ club meeting and hear what we have to offer,” it is churlish and immature and eye roll-worthy to claim that such a statement reeked of “privilege” because some people can’t run and other people can’t hear. </p>

<p>But look, it all started at Wellesley!
<a href=“The Origins of “Privilege” | The New Yorker”>The Origins of “Privilege” | The New Yorker;

<p>Hunt - But people very much do say that minorities can’t act out of a place of privilege because privilege just naturally comes if you are a white male regardless of your power, wealth, or whatever. That’s my problem. Well, that and the fact that we don’t have a dedicated music room, apparently. lol. It’s caused some battles around here. </p>

<p>Minorities CAN have wealth and power and be male . . . or whatever. :wink: Privilege and the need to be aware of it on occasion is not unique to any group.</p>

<p>Agreed, however the expression is directed at white males and occasionally females. No-one is saying this to rich powerful black guys.</p>

<p>And we also lack a dedicated music room and have close neighbors who must be negotiated with and a husband who works odd hours. However, DS has been to the homes of peers who have actual soundproofed recording studios in their homes.</p>

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<p>IME, it isn’t just directed solely on race. It could also be directed on basis of SES status, gender/gender identity, sexual orientation, etc. And it could be done separately or together depending on the situational context and individual(s) involved. </p>

<p>Incidentally, one of the most common uses of “check your privilege” during my undergrad years was in the context of gender/gender identity. </p>

<p>One common example would be women…including White women and those from higher SES backgrounds telling males of all races to “check your privilege” would be in context of discussions where the males were making obnoxiously dismissive or oblivious comments about gender discrimination whether its being subjected to street harassment or being regarded skeptically in the workplace or classroom because of their gender…especially in male-dominated fields such as physical sciences or engineering. </p>

<p>Another was students identifying as gay/lesbian/queer …including White and higher SES asking those of us who are heterosexual or not transgender to check our heteronormative privilege when we betrayed obliviousness or made dismissive comments about the discriminatory treatment, homophobia, lack of inclusion in many areas of mainstream society, and burdens they faced as a result. </p>

<p>The last example is what I was reminded of when I read about the heated controversies of how transgender students were perceived/treated at many colleges. Especially Women’s colleges considering there were plenty of alum and student groups who had serious issues with their admittance…or in treating them like fellow members of the college campus community. Heck, a few even openly wanted those who declared their transgender status after matriculation to be kicked out because they were no longer identifying as women. </p>

<p>Interesting that PG’s comments betray the very blind spot transgender students involved and their allies were pointing out and criticizing during the height of that heated controversy. </p>

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<p>That seems like a perfectly reasonable argument to make. If you no longer qualify to be a member of an exclusionary membership group (such as club or school) for Democrats, women, cat owners, etc., then you should leave. If you don’t leave, it is normal that some people would wish that you would. It has nothing to do with having or checking privilege.</p>

<p>Cobrat, you’re making some very ugly and unwarranted accusations against Pizzagirl and, as usual, you’re jumping to the most ridiculous extreme possible. One can be extremely supportive of transgender students, and still think there is nothing wrong about using the collective “ladies” as a default when it seems appropriate to do so.</p>

<p>And while I don’t agree with sorghum, I do think if you’re going to voluntarily go to and stay at an all-female school while not identifying as female, the burden should be on you to cope with being lumped in with the women on occasion. </p>

<p>Well, @cobrat, your recollection has improved from May 5th:</p>

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<p>To today:</p>

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If this referencve is correct, <a href=“Check Your Privilege | Know Your Meme”>Check Your Privilege | Know Your Meme; (though there is a typo, as the article written by the Wellesley prof was in '88 not '98), the phrase “check your priviledge” was really in use much until around 2006. So highly doubtful it was use 7-10 years before to reference much of anything, let alone about gender identity. Oh, and as an aside, SES status is redundant.</p>

<p>People seem to get their panties in a wad about anything and everything these days. What happened to the days when, if someone suggested something way too expensive, that a person simply replied “its out of my budget” , or “I’m out”, which keeps the speaker talking about themselves, rather than attacking the other person with “you are an insensitive clod” or whatever todays version of that is.</p>

<p>Privilege is always as obvious as being followed in a store. It’s the subtle things that you don’t consider. Do you know how hard it is for a Latino or African American to find “nude” shoes? It’s very hard! Why? Because in America, for the most part, nude is meant for people with white skin. Forget minorities, they don’t matter. What about band aids? They are meant to be skin color to hide them. But skin color for who? A large majority of band aids have this light, peachy color. Guess what, having that is considered a privilege. We live in a world that is catered to white, straight, able bodies males. I highly reccomend that your son reads White Priviledge: Unpacking the Invisible Knapsack by Peggy McIntosh, a white woman. I am by no means discounting your sons achievements, but the Priviledge is there. We all have different levels of Priviledge, but his is much higher than others. It doesn’t matter what his ancestors did.</p>

<p><a href=“http://www.deanza.edu/faculty/lewisjulie/White%20Priviledge%20Unpacking%20the%20Invisible%20Knapsack.pdf”>http://www.deanza.edu/faculty/lewisjulie/White%20Priviledge%20Unpacking%20the%20Invisible%20Knapsack.pdf&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

<p>Hopefully, this will change his approach and view. Your son has been conditioned to ignore his privilegde. Putting these out there will make him recognize that</p>

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I wrote a letter as a kid to J&J over 50 years ago about this issue. Thought I’d make my point, as well as my my fortune recommending skintone bandaids for different races/ethnic groups. It wasn’t about privilege. It was a marketing issue. Expensive to make various shades of adhesive for comparatively smaller numbers. Will a person pick shade “A” but not shade “B”? Will it be like hair dye with multiple choices, requiring more shelf space? </p>

<p>At any point, their solution seemed to be to make clear adhesive (which still shows the white gauze, looks silly to me), or cute cartoon bandaids. I like the Peanuts/Snoopy ones myself.</p>

<p>I should have patented the idea back 50+ years ago, as Urban Armour now makes AA/Latino skintone bandages <a href=“http://www.ebay.com/itm/3-BOXES-URBAN-ARMOUR-AFRICAN-AMERICAN-LATIN-SKIN-TONE-ADHESIVE-BANDAGES-BANDAID-/360691600038”>http://www.ebay.com/itm/3-BOXES-URBAN-ARMOUR-AFRICAN-AMERICAN-LATIN-SKIN-TONE-ADHESIVE-BANDAGES-BANDAID-/360691600038&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

<p>Kiara- That article has been mentioned several times in this thread recently, and the checklist routinely makes its way around facebook.</p>