<p>The HS classmates have amnesia and no memory of the years of tormenting and bullying they subjected me and others to in elementary & middle school. I have no wish to spend any time with them and we do not run in the same circles, so I never see or hear from them except if I choose to attend an event such as a HS reunion. I really have nothing at all in common with most of those folks and can’t see why it’s worth the effort to mend fences. I am successful (personally, financially, professionally, educationally)–have no idea if any of them are and no interest at all.</p>