<p>One thing we were glad about as parents was that we were in a position to help our children develop defenses and not allow themselves to be victims of bullies. I still remember how shocked bullies were when our small, sweet D would deck them after they pushed, punched and hit her. They never touched her more than twice. All the parents applauded her when she hit the coaches son back after he had pushed her one time too many. When the coach asked her why, she said, “I am tired of your son hitting and pushing me EVERY practice and game. You never do anything, though he does it right in front of you and everyone. I’m not taking it any more!” The coach and his S had their mouths hanging open but the kid left her alone after that (tho the coach allowed her as little game time as possible – breaking the league rules).</p>
<p>Bullying is WAY too common from the very youngest ages all the way through school and adulthood in the workplace and society. I am proud that I have taught my kids to stand up for themselves and whenever they see things that aren’t right. I have seen my kids take the side of the underdog, at great risk to themselves and help right things. I wish I had champions like them when I was growing up but am glad I was able to nurture them to develop into people I love, respect and admire.</p>