@bsalum : I will definitely take you up on your offer and will inbox you with some questions that I have regarding Andover.
The comments in this thread are quite timely. We received our Parent Directory from Exeter today which will allow us to reach out to some current students/parents of the school. We have revisit days scheduled for all three as of yesterday which sets my mind at ease to a degree. We’re continuing to do our homework at this point. I’m sure one will ultimately click with our child.