I am 64 years old, out of style (and don’t care) and I have all sons. I need some gift ideas for their young ladies. What is “in” this year? Little things that you can never have too many of maybe? Or something unique? (no collegiate stuff).
One is 31 years old, the other is 28. The third one is my DIL so she’s easier, no problem.
Unfortunately my gifting girls are in this age range and there is no longer any “In” thing for that age.
Look at whether they like fragrances, -get bath and body store stuff or not. Candles, other items with scent
Look at if they like "natural’ stuff and might like a big jar of coconut oil
I have 4 nieces and a daughter in that age range, and they all like different things, from stuff for their pets, Dr. Who, car stuff (she repairs and shows cars in her spare time), funky winter wear like Dr. Who hats or gloves, a gift card from Target…A lot of the girls that age like the infinity scarves. They can be light or heavy, depending on where you live. My D ends up donating the bath and body stuff because it’s often not a scent she likes, and my other D is allergic to many candle scents, so I stay away from gifting those to others.
I try to get a handle on what they like from Facebook, or I ask their moms, as we’re all related. I ask D directly and she’ll usually tell me some good ideas.
Kind of pricy. But do you think the following are good?
https://m.bedbathandbeyond.com/m/product/breville-reg-one-touch-51-ounce-electric-tea-kettle/3245618
My 29 year old actually just bought an electronic tea kettle.
There really is no “generic” young lady any more, or at least no generic young-lady gifts. Having said that, scarves is really a thing right now. I’d stay away from anything scented; preference is just too individual.
How well do you know these young women? Are they coffee and/or tea lovers? Environmentally conscious? Readers? Love love love jewelry? Do they cook/bake? Are they gym rats? Do they garden? Do they root for a team? Enjoy a fine wine, or a fine chocolate?
I bet your DIL could help. 
ETA – Don’t forget “event” gifts. Maybe tickets to a concert/show/game. Or a Fandango gift card is always a hit with my D; she can use it for any movie she wants, whenever she wants.
Look at their Pinterest accounts. 
A Longchamp tote from Nordstrom with a gift receipt. If they don’t like it, they can take it back any time!
Another question is how much you want to spend and whether the gift will be in person or mailed. I avoid things that arevscented because I and so kwny loved ones are HIGHLY sensitive/allergic to strong smells. It’s also a very personal taste as to what smells good to the recipient.
My D is around that age. She likes infinity scarves, mentioned above, soft fluffy throws, interesting costume jewelry, and candy–See’s, Godiva, and similar. She also likes wristlets and small crossbody bags that hold phone, credit cards, keys, cash and not much else. I agree that asking someone who knows the person you’re shopping for can give you helpful suggestions as people are all so different.
A few years ago one of my kids like Kate Spade bags. They both like Lucky Brand. Since they are my kids, I just tag along and give them my credit card.
I just got a glass tree ornament for my D and niece for xmas this year, among others.
I have the same dilemma with my sons’ GFs. And I’ve given both of them so many scarves through the years that giving another would suggest dementia on my part. One of them is a serious artist, so I’ve provided the drawing table and lamp. But now that that’s taken care of, I’m back to no ideas for her, and I’ve never had any ideas for the other one. Since these young women are likely to become my DILs, I don’t want to do gift cards – I want to do something thoughtful.
So I’m thinking. :-??
Good responses above. I like checking their Pinterest, event gifts/tickets, etc.
DO NOT buy scarves unless you have seen them wear them - you are either a scarf wearer or not!
Wristlets can be a good idea - you know, a small purse that like this:
http://www.6pm.com/wristlets
Variety of prices available and styles to match personalities.
I will also say that my 26 year old is also asking for a new modern looking teapot for her birthday - a fun idea!
Do not buy fragrances unless you know they have a specific brand of fragrance they wear / like / want. I would NOT want some scented junk from Bath and Body Works and I’d likely regift it, but I’d very much appreciate certain fragrances I like and wear.
Vera Bradley accessories or Alex and Ani bracelets
There is NO such thing as a generic gift. I don’t like 90% of things listed here thus far and I’m that demographic you’re going after.
Why not ask your sons what they like?
I agree with romani. People are individuals and while D would like most of what has been suggested, other young women her age would not.
Google to find a really highly rated spa in the area where they live, then give them a gift certificate for a facial, massage, etc. That’s what I gave my 26-year old daughter for her birthday. She told me “Having a facial is like flying first class for your face!”
^ A lot of women would love a gift card to a spa ( I would!), but I also know folks who would not set foot in a spa.
^^ And that would probably be me!!!
I really have to agree - if you are giving them a gift you must know that somewhat, right? Think about what you see them wear or use or how they spend their free time. Plan accordingly. And yes, absolutely get opinions from your sons!