Thank you to everyone who replied and for the advice. Very helpful and I sent an email today outlining my concerns more fully.
The kids are in different schools (their choice due to different sport/passions/personalities). Is it wrong to wish that I could get my daughters advisor to write me a letter of recommendation for my sons school explaining that I’m very sane and totally hands off 99% of the time? Lol
My main issue is that my son is a very fast paced learner. So a placement test is measuring what he knows now, generally a teacher gets through half a sentence and the kid already understands the concept. So it’s not what he knows it’s how he learns that indicates he needs the faster pace of honors. If there are things he doesn’t know he will watch half a
Math video on YouTube and understand it.
Anyway, we shall see. I did my part and feel like I said what I needed to say and I feel much better.