Clothing stylist?

Has anyone ever done a consultation with a professional stylist? I’m thinking about how “the stars” have people who choose outfits for them for big events. I’m interested in someone who knows a lot about fashion and fit and what’s actually flattering to different body types, rather than just following the latest fads. To be blunt, I think my daughter could use some guidance since she’s in a field where appearance matters a lot. I think a professional would be better than Mom saying, “oh, honey, that top does you no favors!”

I have not done it, but a number of CCers had success with using personal shopper services at Nordstrom and Saks.

Well I’m married to one but if he EVER said “oh, honey, that top does you no favors!” to me , he would be a dead man.

I have…used a stylist I mean. Neiman and Saks…and a junior Ellebud has worked with a stylist. My hairdresser does a lot of celebrity hair, for award shows and press junkets. Assuming the obvious that something looks perfect, but it is in bright neon yellow, generally this person has sold me clothes before. Tell them your budget, what you like, and do they what your budget is…and then ask them for some of their picks.

Interesting, @musicamusica – don’t you want his professional expertise? Does he tell you what is flattering on you and what isn’t, only in a nicer way? Does he help select your clothes? You’ve really piqued my curiosity!

No one want their H to say something like that to them. :)>-
He is fun to take shopping, He has a great eye and without trying anything on, he can nail what will or will not look good on someone. I like his positive opinion, but he really has no sense as to what is affordable. He , of course , mostly does men’s clothing and when he did work in the entertainment industry his budgets were astronomical. My budget, not so much.Though, now retired , he is just getting around to the idea of not paying full retail.

That’s hilarious, @musicamusica, tho probably not so much when actually making a purchase or contemplating something.

My D has a very discerning eye and is able to put together outfits and dress a stage, but hasn’t been professionally employed in that capacity.

Most folks are lucky if they can use the stylists in Nordstrom’s, Neiman or Saks.

I spend less at Nordstroms and get more use out of what I buy when I use their personal shopper or my now retired sales person. I just lack the “stylist” ability.

How does it work with stylists at a store? Do you make an appointment? Is there a minimum amount you’re expected to spend? Would they be more geared towards “ladies of a certain age” rather than a 20-something? This is very interesting!

I am interested, too. On May 13, I have to speak at my dad’s retirement dinner at UT-Austin. It’s going to be a big deal, and a lot of my former classmates and professors will be there. I want to look nice, but have no idea what to wear.

How “formal” is the event? (Congratulations your father!) Cocktail attire or a dinner dress? How much do you want to spend? What sort of weather? Cocktail outside?

My favorite stores are St.John, Saks, Niemans and Bloomingdales. Look online at their website, but know that most of the stuff isn’t also inshore.

Do you have an evening purse?

I’ve only used Nordstroms. Last time I had to go online and chose the type of visit. I chose special occasion. I listed the sizes I wore in different styles and manufacturers. I needed a dress preferably green in color (the theme was green recycle). I gave my price range, My range was less than $350 but noted if something was fabulous and I could get more than one use I would go more. She took that info and had 6 dresses and a pant & top. I didn’t look at prices when trying on. When I decided it ended up being a bargain. I really wanted the Tadashi I had seen on line to work - it didn’t. The green lacy was perfect at < $70. Alterations were made and it really made it just for me. I brought shoes and spanx. She had shoes, purse, and accessories also. I bought a bra and purse. The spanx were not needed. :)I am using her at next Anniversary sale. I saved and looked great.

I wish I could remember more about this post. There was a long thread, the poster needed a new work wardrobe and went to the Nordstrom personal shopper and was really really happy. But I couldn’t remember enough to search for it.

^^I was thinking the same thing Deb - is this it??? There have been a few good threads on similar topics - including I believe one by @fireandrain helping her friend with a personal shopper.

http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/parent-cafe/1799091-i-m-almost-60-years-old-and-i-don-t-know-how-to-shop-for-clothes-p1.html

Yes, that is the thread!

I will check out that thread. Couple more questions: is there a fee for the service? Do you tip the shopper? If so, how much?

There is no fee for the shopper (though she may make commission on what she sells, as she should) and no, you don’t tip her.

I just made an appointment with a Nordstrom stylist. I need a dress for my upcoming 50th high school reunion.

That’s the one! I remember it was very detailed and helpful.

Rent The Runway, especially if you have a brick and mortar store in your area, is a good option. You make an appointment. The stylist brings you options. You pick. With renting, you don’t have to be annoyed with an expensive gown hanging in your closet you probably cannot wear again because “everyone has seen it already”.

Although probably best known for beautiful gowns and dresses, they have more casual clothes and subscription options. Not for everyone, but a very interesting business idea for a certain kind of customer.