<p>I know this is mostly parents discussing, but I have noticed this within my own peer group. (I’m a senior in high school)</p>
<p>As a high school senior, SO many of my friends have the same attitude as the girl at the end: “Oh, I’ll just take out loans, it doesn’t matter, I NEED to go to ______ school.”, regardless of the cost.</p>
<p>For example, one of my best friends is applying to college right now. She is applying as undecided as of now but wants to transfer as a theatre or acting major later (she’s applying undecided because she doesn’t want to do auditions right now). We’re from the East Coast, and she absolutely insists on going to California to school and considers Berkeley, University of Southern California, and Pepperdine as her three top choices. Her backup option for California is NYU and her safety school is a local private university that costs upwards of 36,000 a year + residency etc. </p>
<p>Her parents do not even want to pay our high school tuition which is at about 7,000 right now. She relies on the alumni scholarship to pay for it. She’s planning on taking out loans, and REFUSES to even consider a public state school, even though acting is a career in which there is no guarantee of any kind of payback. She refuses to consider a backup plan. However, she comes from a family that is too rich for financial aid, but too poor to actually pay the full price tag/her parents are unwilling to pay that kind of money.</p>
<p>This mentality is not at all uncommon among my peers. Many of them ONLY want to attend a private university, where the classes are small, and they get “spa treatment”. Virtually none of these universities are Ivies/top 20s. They are often obscure colleges that have little to no prestige. </p>
<p>I think what I’ve noticed is that those “paper mailings” with the glossy pictures, beautiful buildings, and nice dorms really DO draw students like me. At 18, we aren’t think of the future, we’re thinking “do I really want to be in some crappy public university where the dorms are small, and the buildings are ugly?”. All of the advertising works. I think that “spoiled” mentality is a huge problem because no one is thinking of the 200,000 debt they’ll incur. </p>
<p>I’m very lucky because I’m guaranteed 25,000 a year shaved off of my Penn tuition, and my parents have given up spoiling me with material items for Christmas since I was very little, and instead saved up money in a savings account. When I was little, I resented getting a nice pair of PJs or a book for Christmas, while all of my friends got expensive cameras and iPods but now that I see this and look around, I realize HOW lucky I am to have been given this opportunity to be able to afford any university in the country without any debt. However, most of my friends want it all. They don’t consider what a burden it will be. Part of the reason colleges’ tuition costs so much, is because SO MANY students buy into it.</p>