One thing to consider is having the milk frother separate. That would allow you to get just what you want for the frother and the coffeemaker without having to find a combo model fitting all your criteria.
You’d want a nicer model, but I have a cheap version similar to this one https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0D1R452JX/ref=sspa_dk_detail_0?pd_rd_i=B0D1R452JX&pd_rd_w=WKOHd&content-id=amzn1.sym.8c2f9165-8e93-42a1-8313-73d3809141a2&pf_rd_p=8c2f9165-8e93-42a1-8313-73d3809141a2&pf_rd_r=Z0CQHE662KT7R5KE0KXP&pd_rd_wg=r1b8v&pd_rd_r=0c88990f-4976-4902-8916-31c2cd5a7ea6&sp_csd=d2lkZ2V0TmFtZT1zcF9kZXRhaWw&th=1