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<p>When did I mention: </p>
<p>prep school pianists
Debate club members
chess players
Mock Trial Members
societal cliches
Starting e.c.s in Junior High
Cheerleading doesnt require intelligence, persistence and dedication
Preppy bouncy, intellectually decrepit varsity cheerleaders?</p>
<p>Answer: Never. Thats the entire point. You dont know me, and you couldn’t have made a single of the above assumptions by a single post I have written on this or any other thread.</p>
<p>Heres what you assumed I am ignorant of: that I have any assumptions about the time put into any of the above e.c.s you mention none of which I mentioned nor were even thinking of at the time.</p>
<p>You are over-reacting to, and stereotyping, a mother whose children performed, and were awarded, in high level competitive dance, – locally, nationally, and internationally, for a combined 20 years, since one of them is still doing it, and did it at an Ivy and is doing it in grad school. Many times a week, long commutes, extremely long practices, often more hours per week than a varsity athlete, and 100s of awards. I dont need a ranting lecture about the practices and the discipline, since that discipline was instrumental on their part in their college admissions.</p>
<p>The only mistake I made was that I forgot to remind debaters who are reactive and refuse to read where a post was being responded to, that they should remember that the context of my original reply was to a poster named sorghum, on this thread, that was discussing the Chinese style of admissions, with the possible implication of rigorous science programs relative to demanding academic admissions. (Since that poster tends to write more about those programs than other programs, I assumed that was his context.) That was all. I was arguing with him, and the kinds of e.c.s he assumes are important for all academic programs, as opposed to e.c.s that are well-received among broader groups of colleges, including well-respected LACs such as Kenyon, and many other private & public colleges. The part you quoted was deliberately brief on my part, because I well, silly me take it for granted (apparently too often) that people will read the context of a reply. The frequent detractors of college admissions policies in this country, at least as they represent themselves on CC, often assume broad generalities about whats important for all colleges, not whats important for merely a few colleges, called, without unanimity, elite. Their favorite tactic is to trivialize and ridicule the holistic process for supposedly admitting underprepared students, and they do so by making broad generalizations that actually cannot be applied broadly whatsoever.</p>
<p>The truth is that admissions officers often say, “It doesn’t really matter what you do (activity-wise), as long as you do something. We want to see that you are involved beyond academics. It doesn’t have to be in a particular category (etc.).”</p>
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<p>Obviously you do. Your combined rants prove that you do, and youve also proven that you have immense stereotypes about others, and assume that no one else but yourself could know a bleepin thing about the dance, gymnastics, cheerleading, skating world.</p>
<p>But hey, Im just a stupid, arrogant, ignorant, person, reliant on societal cliches with pervasive misunderstanding about dance. Yep. That’s why we spent up to 30 hours a week on it over 20 years (not including competition weekends) and traveled thousands of miles, entered about 120 competitions and participated in dozens of paid and unpaid performances. Because I’m ignorant and stupid. </p>
<p>You have also dismissed twice now my statement that unless I saw the academic record of any particular cheerleader, I would not be able to ascertain, pro or con, whether there was sufficient preparation for a rigorous academic program. Thus, there were dancers of my children’s ages who were capable and prepared for “elite”-level universities (or certainly, very demanding universities), and others who were not, who were fabulous dancers but had spent so much time dedicated to their dance, which they preferred to academics, that their admissions results reflected that. There were only about 3-5 of the top competitors in my children’s age groups who were admitted to top-ranked institutions.</p>
<p>Several posts back the first time I responded to sorghum you had a friend. You, only you, have succeeded supremely in creating an enemy. Congratulations.</p>