I have been researching, visiting, and looking into colleges heavily the past few months, yet finding an ideal place for me to spend four years seems to be a lot harder than I feel like it should be. If you could, please try to tell me what you think id be most successful in, or at least enjoy in a college experience.
I am a male senior in high school who is very sociable, outgoing, and good at making new friends. I play varsity basketball, participate in a ton of clubs (president of two), manage the girls soccer team, love community service (I swear I am not just saying that), have good stats (32 ACT 4.0 GPA (5.0 W)).
I’m leaning a little bit to the idea I would prefer a smaller school because of small class sizes, personal professor relationships, more a student based college feel, and from my tours it feels like they have more of a community within the school. However, I also would like a mid size school (Wake, Duke, Tulane) since there are often more events, school pride, more people, potentially more resources and opportunities for research and internships, things to do, etc. I also don’t want to look back and feel like I missed the “true college experience”. My current list is:
Bowdoin, Davidson, Duke, Emory, Middleburry, UNC, Northwestern, Trinity University, Tulane, Wake Forest, Williams
I know this a range from small LAC to research universities, but they all have aspects I really like and I am still trying to cut off one or two of those schools.
I know touring is a huge part of college decisions, and I have been able to tour Duke, Tulane, Davidson, Wake, and Emory. Since I live in NC, my parents have agreed to take me to tour the more northern schools once we find out which schools (if any) I get accepted to.
As far as my tours, I loved Davidson’s small college town vibe, as well as the buildings athletics, and campus. I also loved Wakes campus a ton, and their athletics is also a nice addition. Duke is lovely, yet right in my backyard since I lived in Durham most of my life. Tulane’s atmosphere and campus was great, and it seemed that most students there seemed genuinely glad to be there. I wasn’t a huge fan of Emory (don’t know exactly why… maybe the whole city vibe, maybe it was just a bad day) but as someone who is planning to go medical, I am open to it as a option.
Although I am social and into sports, none of that is going to be a make or break factor. I want to go somewhere where I can go to many social outings and meet new people, but I don’t need a college that is dependent on party’s 24/7. I just want a quality education where I will be happy and able to achieve some great accomplishments. At the moment the plan is to go to medical school, although I know this could very well change.
I have a good feeling I will be fine as as student at any of these colleges, just I really want to go somewhere I will enjoy and be truly happy.
I know none of you know me personally, but I hope this info can lead you to help me at least a little bit. Any feedback is much appreciated!