$20k if you have no need will be close. Some Honors cost.
Your Alabama (tons of smart kids from out west), Ms State etc will be cheapest. Bama about $20k with auto merit. Arizona mid 20s. A Florida State with OOS waiver will get you mid 20s.
Obviously perhaps there a UC or CSU and you can live home - but that’s not really going to school. Better to go to a CC.
There are privates with big merit. Like Kalamazoo, Depauw and more but not enough to get you close.
There are the full ride Hail Marys - SMU, W&L, Seattle etc.
Tell your dad he needs to fund all of UCLA…assuming he can afford it. Otherwise you’re in a bind.