In an attempt to show unconditional acceptance and support, I’ve very likely gone a bit overboard. Our 20 yr old is home for the summer and has met someone here. I knew he was dating a bit at school, but this seems a little more serious even though it’s only been a few weeks.
I researched and purchased the best/most popular lube for gay men.
I’ve invited him to our beach vacation at the end of the summer.
Allowed sleepovers in the same bed… although I did take S aside and reminded him he shares a wall w/ a 13 yr old, be respectful. Thankfully, S has the room w/ the en suite bath so that’s not an issue.
Will ask today if more condoms are needed. He can certainly purchase for himself, but just want to plant the reminder in his brain to monitor his supply.
And then just the obvious cooking, cleaning, genuinely showing love and concern for the boy as a person, and them as a couple. Apparently the box of dozen donuts left on the counter the first day of summer classes was a huge hit!