I think that’s assuming a lot. I do not get involved with my kids’ sex lives. My kids and their SOs didn’t stay in the same room until they were out on their own. They stayed in separate rooms, but I didn’t do midnight checks.
My kids are older, when they were in their 18+ college age, I used to meet their BFs pretty early on (dinner, coffee), but not meeting their parents until they were serious. D1 did invite her now in-laws to her college graduation party. D2 is living with her BF of 5 years and I only met them right before Covid because they were coming into town.
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