We give them roots so that they can have wings. I have two children who are older than your S. My D basically left home when she started college. She is now in her 30’s, and she is independent in every way. My S was more comfortable coming home. It took him a lot longer to be independent. They were born with different personalities. It wasn’t being away from home that made them different … they made different choices because they were different. I say let him do what makes him happy.
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