College student doesn’t want to come home for summer

Big hugs to you. My oldest only came home the summer after her freshman year then opted to live and work in her college town. It hurt and I missed her terribly. After some reflection, I realized my child wasn’t rejecting me and was becoming the independent young adult I’d hoped she would be. She lives nearby and our relationship is better than ever. If you give your child this time to grow and explore the world, without making him feel guilty or judged, then your relationship will be stronger.

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