<p>I don’t believe in God, and I don’t believe in soul mates, either.</p>
<p>I’m perfectly comfortable with the possibility that there could be some other person out there who’s better for me than my spouse, because I’m not looking for the mathematically optimal marriage – I’m happy in my sometimes imperfect one.</p>
<p>Getting married isn’t about sorting through all of the potential partners on the planet to find the one who’s perfect. It’s about finding somebody who’s wonderful and making it work.</p>