<p>Like so many on this thread - met and married early. He was 18 and drove a hot car, I was 16 and had some atribute I never quite figured out…
Married when I was 20, he was 22 and a grad student. Bumbled our way through financing grad school … Got embarased at awards ceremonies because we always thought the faculty sent money our way because we needed it…
Do I believe in god? Yes. Do I believe that god was selecting my perfect partner?? No. I believe in god but know that there were numerous other lives had H and I not married… most of them that I can imagine are far worse than what has come about.</p>