You are not going to get aid - if the family earns $300K.
So you need to talk to your folks about what they will contribute.
If it’s $40K, it will eliminate schools - including Bryn Mawr most likely although they have merit aid. It’s likely a reach anyway given your stats.
And that’s where flexibility on your part, including location, may be required - or at least to open up more schools.
Can you again say what you’re looking for?
I read a BArch but others (and then me based on their suggestions) are sending urban studies, historic preservation and more.
For tuition, room and board alone + college fee, BM is $85,420 - and the likelihood of $45K in merit is slim to none.
So please have that discussion - and please update on exactly what major/degree you are looking for.
Thanks