Colleges your child crossed off the list after visiting, schools that moved up on the list. Why? (NO REPLIES)

We went north of the border!

UBC. UP. This was D25’s top choice prior to the visit and the visit sealed the deal. It was sunny and 80 degrees. Vancouver is gorgeous and we took a bus to the campus because I wanted D25 to see how she would commute off campus. Lots of college students riding the bus.

The campus tour location was pinned on Google maps, which I appreciated. The campus is organized across three directional malls/walkways that makes finding things easy. The campus is huge and can take 25 minutes to walk from the far end of one to another, but mostly flat. The campus has older buildings and many newer tall, glass buildings. There were 4 new builds that I counted: a new recreation center, a biomedical building, and two others that I did not see the names of.

The tour had about 50 people and they broke us into small groups. The main tour presenter was a student and was very impressive and emphasized how important music was to him as much as his academic topic. Our tour only had two students (ours and another one with their family). Our smaller tour guide was very professional.

The campus tour was great and I feel like it hit the highlights. We saw the older freshman dorms and they looked fine to me. Most of the dorms are singles. (After the official tour was over, we walked the rest of the campus and went through the new freshman dorm. It was gorgeous.) The tour guide was honest about the university’s housing constraints and said as a second year, she was still actively looking for housing because she had not yet gotten an on-campus offer. Definitely one of the big drawbacks.

Some of my highlights: The Japanese garden (that the main tour takes a short loop through but we went back afterwards to really spend some time in.) The indoor aquatic complex has an olympic size pool and a lazy river. At this point, I told my husband that it has been a good run with him and the kids and all, but I’m going to apply and I’ll see him again in 4 years.

Some of D25’s highlights: the dorms and the academic building we went into. She liked seeing what a typical classroom looked like.

I also found the campus very clean and well kept. I don’t know if it was because it was summer, but I thought that boded well. I also thought that even though there were probably significantly less students on campus than you would get during the academic year, the student body is clearly diverse.

After the tour, there was a short admission discussion, which was really helpful. I liked that she said, “and don’t just look at the tuition cost–here is the housing and book costs, too.” She said she had a number of parents every year expect to only pay the tuition, but that cost doesn’t include the $13k of housing and ~$3k in books, etc. I did a quick calculation on all costs and it came out to $45k in U.S. dollars. A deal in comparison to other OOS costs we’re looking at.

We had a 2 hour tour, around 1.5 hours for lunch at a restaurant on campus, and then spent another 2.5 hours on our own walking around. Got 19k steps in and rode a packed bus home. Please college gods, let this happen for her.

Simon Fraser University. Sadly, down and off. We took the R5 bus from downtown Vancouver to campus.

The campus tour location is not pinned on Google maps. We had to ask three staff people on how to get to its location, one of whom did not know where the building was at all.

I was worried that the brutalist architecture would be a big nope for D25 who is picky about that kind of stuff. She was not. She liked the campus, found it very walkable and noted that it was a lot of covered walkability because it would be raining a lot.

We saw the gym, the various faculties, the track, their largest classroom that sat 400 people, and had the three campuses explained. The tour guide was fine, but didn’t know the name of one of the buildings we went in. I know comparisons aren’t fair, but the UBC tour guides gave me a sense of what UBC values and some facts. The SFU tour guide gave us facts, or lack thereof.

The new freshman dorms are modern, singles, and are just a few steps away from the business school. The new dining hall looks like a food court.
But it was during this discussion that we were gutted: they don’t guarantee on-campus freshman housing. Our tour guide said he never got on-campus housing as a freshman international student and had to arrange to live off campus himself. If D25 ends up moving to Canada to go to college, I’d want her to move into a community to help her connect. I just don’t want D25 to have to grocery shop, meal plan, and cook for herself next year already. I think that would be too steep of learning curve just yet. I’m sure some kids would be ready, but not D25.

D25’s “no” vote was 50% of housing and 50% to the 3 campus issue. So, we went to the Burnaby campus–the main campus on the top of the hill. Beautiful and picturesque location. But the tour guide said some of the classes were only available at Vancover and Surrey campuses, which were at least a 50 minute or more bus rides away. D25 didn’t think she’d like that. D25 did not like the bus ride through the east side of Vancouver, especially on the way back when some of the homeless folks got on our bus. I’m used to the homeless populations in a city environment, but the east side of Vancouver is remarkable with the volume and size of its encampments. I told her she could find a different class if she didn’t want to take the bus (and I think maybe hearing about others doing the same would have normalized it a bit), but she was still a hard no.

So, this school, which would have been a strong contender if UBC didn’t work out, will be a no and she won’t even apply.

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DD25 is looking for NE LACs with a strong science background for potential pre-vet.

First, the downs

Chatham: OFF. Campus was beautiful and daughter was excited but This was a disaster of a tour. We were there for an open house. The session went 3 hours in the gymnasium where they repeated the same information over and over and over. And then they broke us into groups by major interest. But our “sciences” group was over 150 people and they put us in an auditorium designed to hold 75 and 1 professor in exercise science (that couldn’t answer questions about Bio, Physics, or Chem programs). And then we took a tour of campus…all 150 of us, with ONE student tour guide. (we did not fit in the dorm room). And then to top it off, the cafe lunch at the end had no food (because we were so late) so we had to go to a Sheetz after the tour for lunch.

Bard: down and off. We were looking at this school because of DD interest in the arts (although not the intended major). 1 tour guide to about 50 people was a turnoff for a student looking at LACs for personal attention and did not get the feel of a strong science program.

Trinity College: Down and off. Came off as super preppy and wealthy. Students in suits and ties and didn’t give the right vibe for DD.

Lehigh: Down and off. Campus was incredibly hilly. Daughter liked the architecture but the frat and party vibe was a turnoff and a little larger than she is hoping for.
Swarthmore: Down and off. The tour was great, the campus was great. The main reason is that we learned there was zero chance for merit aid, making this too expensive. In addition, the school seemed a little stressful to DD.

Bates: Down, but then off. Campus was nice, actually liked the town and the connection between the school and the town, but again, very expensive and no merit aid and nothing particularly stuck out as making it special.

St. Mary’s College of Maryland: Down and off. Another situation of admissions not seeming to read the room. Tour was 1 tour guide with a large group. Pointed to buildings but no stories and no information about them. I really liked the waterfront location and tried to encourage to look beyond the “tour” but that didn’t really land with DD.

Same-ish

University of Vermont: Same, but then off. Great place. We looked at this one because it is a small public university. Liked the availability of animal science and other majors that apply. Campus is great. Vermont is awesome; however, the vibe still comes across as large state university. Every seat in the library was taken, students walking through the quad in groups of 50…instead of 3-5 like at LACs. In the end, just not the environment DD desires.

Mount Holyoke: Same, then off. Beautiful place, great academics. DD was open to possibility of a all-women’s school mainly because it is linked by consortium to others, but the tour guide highlighted over and over about how great it was that it was all-women’s.

St. Michael’s College: Same. Nice place overall. Staff was great. In the end, just nothing special stuck out. Would likely be on the list if it were closer to home.

College of Wooster: Same. Campus was beautiful. The science facilities in particular were impressive. The town seemed nice. Really liked the research opportunities. Remains on the list but not top choice. Might Apply.

Gettysburg: Same. Everything was good, walkability to downtown Gettysburg is awesome. DD felt strongly that a poli sci major or history major should go there. A little less certain about sciences. Plans to apply.

Bucknell: Same (but good). Loved the campus, love the opportunities. Size is perfect. Very remote. Research opportunities are great. Some concern about the high level of greek life and LGTQA+ friendliness of the area. Plans to apply.

UP
Marist: Up. This was a let’s check it out while we are in the area. Nicest dorms we’ve seen. Facilities are top notch. Really liked the campus on the water and while many people complain about Poughkeepsie, we did not find that to be a concern. This one makes the apply list despite not initially being on the list.

Vassar: Up. Loved everything hear. The campus, the students, the activity on campus. The only concern here is that this is another “no-merit” school. Plan to apply as the reach and just see what happens.

Lafayette: Up. Love this tour. The campus seems great and the academics are good. And we also liked the town of Easton. Close to cities without being in one. Seems like a perfect fit (except maybe the cost).

Washington and Jefferson: Up. Really loved the student and the admissions officer that gave this tour. The school exceeded our expectations and seems like one that takes B students and turns them into professionals. Seems to have strong science department. The town is unfortunately, disappointing…but Pittsburgh is close (and safe for a larger city) as a plus. Merit aid program here and the Magellan opportunities are a huge appeal.

Allegheny: Up. Another gem. The staff in admissions were incredible and they arranged additional meetings at the last minute based on interests we expressed. Really have the impression of a strong support community and the Meadville is much nicer than Washington (although a bit further from Pittsburgh).

Ursinus: Up. Tour guide (without prompting) hit every button that DD was looking for. The location in the Philly suburbs is a bonus. Safe area and close but not immediate access to Philly and everything around it. pre-professional programs seem top notch.

Dickinson: Up. Super impressed on this tour. Focus on sustainability and bringing the world to campus hit home with us. Support system was impressive and it doesn’t hurt that the campus/town relationship was the strongest we saw.

Union: Up. The presentation was great. Really love the motto about living at the union of everything. Merging science and art, etc. Very friendly. Best tour we had anywhere. Tailored to our interests, funny, honest about the good and the bad. Science facilities were great. This has rocketed to a top choice. Only downside is there were not students on campus were there, so we need to revisit.

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My D26 is a potential direct entry BSN applicant (nursing is her top choice right now, although she is still open to other healthcare career paths). We hit several campuses this spring/summer:

Elon (UP but probably off) – Elon showed very well. It is a lovely campus and we had a funny, relatable tour guide who was also (not coincidentally) a nursing major. The admissions presentation was typical but well run. The building and grounds were so pretty and well cared for that my D actually commented on it. We had lunch in the very small but cute town of Elon which is right off campus, and headed over to the nursing building for a private tour. The nursing student who showed us around was pleasant and the facilities are new. However, the BSN program is just a few years old and feels like it is still in flux. Clinical opportunities seemed somewhat limited and often far away (car needed). Ultimately, my D decided she didn’t really like the rural environment or nursing opportunities. (As I parent, I noted that greek life and house parties seem to be an important part of the social scene, with more than half of the female students in a sorority.) However, this one might be worth a look for someone who likes the charm of a small town and well-kept rural campus.

U Minnesota Twin Cities (SAME). This is D’s second visit. We have family in town and her oldest brother toured (so she tagged along at around age 10). The campus is urban but maintains green spaces and quads. Public transportation (light rail, buses) and hospitals (for clinicals) are nearby and easy to access. Unfortunately, although school was still in session, the campus/area around campus was totally dead during our early Saturday morning tour. Plus, our tour guide was completely unmemorable. D will likely apply even though nursing is a very tough admit here – but it didn’t really excite her. In fact, she asked to bail out of the tour early so we did.

UMich (WAY UP). Ann Arbor hit all the right notes for my D. It was crazy to watch the change in her whole demeanor once we hit town. She spiffed herself up for dinner in the Main Street District and actually wanted to hang out and explore campus informally after we ate. The next morning, D was up and at 'em for our info session and tour. Pretty standard, but she was already hooked. Unfortunately for her (and just about anyone OOS) this is a long shot. As a side note, I saw lots of unhoused individuals hanging out and asking for money right off and around campus. We live within a big city so it is part of daily life for us – D didn’t seem noticed, except to politely decline a request for money on our way to dinner – but I was sort of surprised it was so prevalent in a college town. Not sure why, since housing insecurity is everywhere, but I was. Actually, I thought Ann Arbor as a whole had an interesting gritty-city-in-a-small-town vibe that my D apparently connects with. We did not do a nursing specific tour in-person, but D attended a virtual nursing info session a few weeks earlier.

Loyola Chicago (DOWN) – I think maybe this one is just too close to home. Loyola Chicago has a pretty campus right on Lake Michigan in the Rogers Park/Edgewater neighborhoods of Chicago. There is absolutely nothing negative to say about our info session or tour – and a rep from the nursing program met us after the tour to discuss the program and answer questions. In the end, my D said she did not like the nursing curriculum or the core course requirements. She said she much preferred Marquette (see my earlier post) and considers them fairly interchangeable. Both are mid-sized, jesuit universities in cities with good BSN programs. I doubt she will apply, but maybe.

Pitt (UP) – This was our last tour of the summer and our first trip specifically to tour a college. I picked it somewhat selfishly since I grew up in the North Hills. But I also thought she might like the city setting. We were there for a “blue and gold” day which was extraordinarily well run. There were apparently 800 people there but you would not have known. There was swag, snacks, individual college tours (including nursing), general campus tours, and lots and lots of helpers in bright yellow and navy striped rugby shirts (my D called them “the bees”). The nursing students who spoke and gave tours were a little awkward, but the quality of the program was readily apparent. My D said it has her favorite nursing curriculum so far. Although she liked the campus, it is still a fairly distant second to UMich. Oh, and as a bonus, we squeezed in a nice visit to the Carnegie Museum of Natural History prior to heading to the airport to fly home. What a nice museum right off campus!

A few of my general observations: My D (unlike her older brothers) is very focused on curriculum. The first thing she checks at every school is the 4-year nursing course plan and clinicals. It seems to really drive her impressions of the school, which is a little odd to me but probably a better reason to pick a school than most. It also seems that pretty, landscaped, manicured grounds and attractive buildings are far less important to her than me. And she definitely prefers an urban or larger college town environment.

Next up: Northwestern (non-nursing) and then Boston. Will report back late fall!

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Is she likes Michigan she should also see Wisconsin. Similar vibe with a lakefront.

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Recent tours for my average midwest girl looking for a small or medium school. I purposefully picked 3 very different schools/locations for this trip.

Rider: Same/Went in Neutral- may not apply only due to possible change in majors
More suburban. Surrounding area felt pretty safe. Likely need to uber for other stuff to do.
Went to Bronc for a Day. Sat in metal folding chairs for an hour in the gym listening to the standard college stuff.
Limited food options but they have been making dorm and dining updates
12:1 student teacher ration
Diverse student body (a huge plus for my D25)
We found campus to be clean and easy to navigate with some green space.
D25 thought it was odd they did not include a tour for potential students (they really push their visit 3 times for free textbooks).
They were supposed to have food trucks but they told us it was their largest group they have ever had (100 plus people) so the 1 pizza slice food truck and 1 ice cream truck were overwhelmed with long lines so we just left.
They are a CommonApp only school. They said to answer all questions. If you apply EA you get free parking and best aid.
Average aid is 14-27k merit. Its 12-20k for transfer students.

Stockton: Same/Went in neutral- will likely still apply
This place is a fortress compound if you are into that sort of place.
Very updated and modern. Looks like an airport.
Buildings are simply “A block” “C block” etc.
As it is so tucked away from everything, the Osprey cash is accepted at many restaurants, cvs, even salons
Free cable, laundry, printing
$10 bus rides to major cities.
ESA are allowed. Free telehealth therapist within 15 minutes of calling.
While the buildings were nice, it felt very odd to me. D25 didn’t totally hate it though and it could be in cost range so we will see.

Saint Joseph’s-Philly: Went in w/little knowledge of the place/Went UP for D25
More suburban part of Philly
Older stone buildings
Classes max at 35 students
Freshman are in dorms, Sophomores in apartment style. Jr/Sr off campus. They are building the “second largest dorm in PA” planned to open Fall 2026 for freshman.
30% Greek. Dorms have a/c and communal baths.
Only 1 food hall but there are a few places walkable nearby.
2 hrs of free tutoring a week.
Jesuit school/core reqs. The tour guide was a part of many service organizations and that is what really sold the school for D25. She was drawn to the service learning aspect of Jesuits. While she has toured other Jesuit schools, I think this tour guide just was more open and active with how he volunteers and projects he has done and D25 thought it was interesting.

The tours helped D25 to further narrow her choices and wants in a school. I have a much better idea of what she is looking for! (And adding a school or two to her already long list!)

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Probably a move up - we went to UCONN this morning. It was a gross gray rainy morning and we had a 10:00 tour after a long drive yesterday and bad sleep in a hotel. Which should have been a recipe for disaster, but UCONN showed well, despite that. The brick buildings still look welcoming in the rain. Every building we went into felt large and spacious and new. I’m sure there are other older feeling buildings, but it’s clear that the school has put a significant amount of money into their physical plant. There isn’t a ton of green space on the main part of campus, but it is, definitely, in the middle of nowhere with plenty of green in the surrounding areas. The students who presented the info session and our tour guide were upbeat and engaged, and did an excellent job of talking about the school. Something about the school makes it feel even bigger than it is - we can’t quite put our finger on it, maybe the fact that so many buildings are big? There were lots of mentions of their championship basketball teams, but also a good amount of love was given to other sports, with commentary about how well supported the other teams are too. Students don’t move in until later this week, so we couldn’t quite get the same feel as we did on earlier tours, but my son felt welcomed and felt like this could be a good choice for him. I’m calling this a move up on his list mostly because he had no real interest - I added UCONN because I thought it checked most of his wants and that it could work as a likely admittance school. Since he’s mostly been focused on southern schools and really leaning hard that way, I didn’t expect him to like UCONN as much as he did. Unrelated to the merits of the school, we stopped at the Dairy Bar for home made ice cream from local cows. Best ice cream I’ve ever had (and a “small” is really more of a “medium” size.)

Editing, if I can, to add a photo. This is the Gampel Pavillion (where the basketball teams play). I usually try to take a few pictures on campus, including of whatever “their place” is, some kind of iconic location. I figured this is probably the best for that purpose. :slight_smile:

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Pomona College

This wasn’t a normal visit as my daughter is already an admitted student. But we dropped her off for orientation this weekend and it was everybody’s first time to Claremont/Pomona. In a perfect world, we would have loved to have visited Claremont much earlier but the odds of admission didn’t seem to justify the 8-hour drive, and she got in off the waitlist in May (which didn’t afford time for a pre-decision visit). But she wasn’t worried and neither was I. Nor should we have been: Pomona is fantastic!

Campus: To my mind, it felt like a smaller, prettier Stanford. The campus is mostly Spanish architecture, more attractive than grandiose, and features many, many quaint courtyards, fountains, nooks, and crannies. There are a few well-designed modern buildings. The campus definitely felt bigger than its 5C cohorts and, even by itself, feels like a good-sized LAC. But combined with the other 5Cs, it really did feel like a mid-sized university. The cafeteria food was solidly above average but perhaps not quite as good as Bowdoin. On the other hand, there are so many dining options, including Frary, which features a massive Orozco mural. My daughter’s dorm is a double without AC. The room itself felt spacious and had a lot of storage. I’d say it’s a nice and slightly above-average dorm room, but nothing special. The new Studio Art Building is as large and impressive as any we saw previously (including Williams and Dartmouth).


The Benton Art Museum is a beautiful building that’s literally across the street from my daughter’s dorm. I thought the building itself was more impressive than the art museums I saw at other colleges. On the other hand, as a relatively new museum (built in 2020), it leaned heavily into modern and contemporary art and featured way fewer recognizable works than college museums like Williams or Smith. Last, on the subject of art, we visited the James Turrell (an alumnus) Skyspace for the sunset show, which was pretty cool.

Vibes: The drop off, family presentations, and everything else was extremely well run. When we arrived outside my daughter’s dorm in our car, there were more than a dozen Pomona students who collectively cheered, hooted, and hollered for us as well pulled up. They then moved all my daughter’s stuff out of our car and into her dorm room. Everyone I saw and met associated with Pomona was extremely friendly. One might expect some showy good cheer for orientation, but it felt genuine. I noted that one of the Pomona students and a cafeteria work knew each other by name and had a nice conversation about their respective summers. Pomona has a reputation for diversity, and I can say that it felt well-earned. Everybody seemed well represented in everyway—students, parents, professors, administrators, etc. In short, very good vibes.

Claremont: This was the biggest surprise. The Claremont Village is fantastic and my favorite college town of all our visits, including Northampton, Brunswick, Williamstown, Amherst, Hanover, Swarthmore, Saratoga Springs, and Westwood. It has a large number of restaurants, coffee shops, art galleries, stores, etc. and is only a couple minutes from campus. On Friday night, we passed by three different live concerts (bluegrass, surf rock, and someone doing covers of the Bengals and Go-Go’s). There’s also a Trader Joe’s, Target, mall, and megaplex cinema within a mile or so of campus. If I’m honest, I reckon Claremont’s charms are more likely to be appreciated by parents with disposable income than college students. To me, it felt like one of the older, attractive, and affluent Bay Area towns–e.g., Los Gatos or Saratoga. Still, there are definitely things for college students like still cheap eats, 4 or 5 thrift shops (which excited my daughter), and places for coffee, tea, or boba. If there was any smog, we didn’t notice it. The San Gabriel mountains were a pleasant backdrop and were crystal clear. It was, however, pretty hot (low 90’s). That excited and pleased my kid, but I was cooking anytime we were in the sun.

Scripps: We only wandered a little on Scripps’s campus without an official tour, but it is an incredibly cute and charming campus. It’s also predominantly Spanish in design, but it had more ivy and flowers. I continue to believe that Scripps is a hidden gem.

Mudd, Pitzer, and CMC: My visit was limited to an early morning jog in which I spent only a few minutes on each campus. I reckon the vast majority of people would conclude that Scripps and Pomona have the nicest campuses. The others have some nice-looking buildings intermingled with 50’s and 60’s brutalist buildings that reflect these schools’ provenance. There was a large building being erected on CMC’s campus.

Side Attractions: We visited the Huntington Library on the way home, which is worth a visit. It’s a combination of several themed gardens, a couple art museums, and a library that features original letters and manuscripts (e.g., an illuminated manuscript of the Canterbury Tales from circa 1400).

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Notes from college tours from last summer (2023) with DD that I’ve been meaning to post. I think this actually helps, as we’ve had time to reflect since then and put things in context.

Elon: (Up, then way down) We were greeted by a student outside when we arrived. Impressive 7-minute video that was created by students and alumni, followed by a brief talk by admissions officer focused on the application process. Scholarships appear very common, as she said you could appeal a scholarship decision and usually get you one if you didn’t initially. Tour groups had only two prospective applicants per guide, making it easy to ask questions. Our guide was very personable and had plenty to say throughout. His talk was polished. The emphasis on hands-on education was clear, and he tailored it to the interests of the two students he was guiding. The vibe was very much communications and business students: outgoing, social, friendly, not so much analytical. The campus is immaculate and could pass for a country club. Months later, DD applied and got invited to the fellows weekend, which was poorly run. Upon this second visit, it became clear that this is not an “intellectual” student body, but a pre-professional one. After visiting several LACs and top-tier schools, Elon no longer struck DD as serious, especially about STEM. The dorms were the best we saw anywhere, though.

Virginia Tech: (Up a little) The info session didn’t cover much that couldn’t be learned from the website, and focused on the admissions process. Our tour guide didn’t seem very confident and used fillers in nearly every sentence (“…so that’s good”). She covered the basics of each location, but we would have liked to hear more about her personal experience. When asked about her major (neuroscience) and what she wanted to do with it, she seemed to have ended up in the major almost accidentally, and didn’t know what she was doing next. The campus was beautiful and well laid out. The interior rooms we saw looked typical of most public schools (i.e., just okay). There were many building under construction, so it’s apparent that the school is growing. The breadth of classes offered seems impressive. Blacksburg was incredibly small for such a large college. I understand that it’s a rural school, but with so many students, we expected more of a college town.

Connecticut College: (Up) Conn has a very cohesive campus layout, with well-kept buildings. For 2000 students, there is an amazing amount of space, both outside and inside. I would have guessed there were twice as many students based on the campus size. Our tour guide was clearly enthusiastic about the school, particularly the research options and the career center. Exams are self-scheduled. There are two main dining halls. The vibe was “calm and welcoming,” as DD described it. It reminded us of Dickinson in that sense. The town of New London is about 1.5 miles away, so the school offers free Lyft rides into town if students want to go. The town felt a bit shabby, though.

Bryn Mawr: (Up) This was the friendliest and most outgoing guide we had anywhere. She was contagiously enthusiastic about her school and spoke clearly about it and the consortium. To me, the school felt very small, but the partnership with Haverford makes it bigger in terms of opportunity. Politically, it felt very far left, even compared to the many other LACs we visited. This was borne out later in the day when we visited Haverford and heard some stories that caused us to look up what happened with these schools in 2021.

Haverford: (Up, then down) The science labs were small, but impressive. All the facilities were actually impressive, especially for a small school. They seemed very well-resourced. We got the impression that these are very smart and high achieving students. Most dorms are singles. The vibe was activist political, with one side of the 2021 protests story told by the guide. I later learned of a very different, and very much not positive, side online from posts on this site, with white students forced to play ‘privilege bingo’ and being shouted down.

Lehigh: (Way down) Lehigh needs to seriously consider whom they are putting in front of the public. DD’s summary of the visit: The admissions officer who gave their online presentation? Boring and monotonous. Their live information session? Boring, with nothing that wasn’t on the website. Their student tour guide? A rising sophomore who didn’t have much positive to say about the school. This is a potential $300,000 investment. I take it seriously, but Lehigh doesn’t seem to.

UMass-Amerst: (Down) We didn’t get to take the tour, as there was thunder outside, so the student guides did them virtually indoors via the 3D online tour. We later walked around a bit. The facilities are nice, but everything feels crowded, even with the students mostly gone for summer. Perhaps this is because so many of the buildings are high-rises. The campus layout lacks clear quads–building are placed almost randomly, so it doesn’t feel cohesive. The food is rated #1, and we ate dinner in the main dining hall. It was fine, with a lot of variety, but I was surprised that it was ranked #1. (Taste-wise, our dinner at Duke was better.)

Lafayette: (Down) Info session focused on the application process and the importance of demonstrated interest. She didn’t really seem interested in selling the school to us, though. Our tour guide was less than inspiring. He was able to speak to the literal facts of the campus, but he didn’t bring it to life or seem genuinely excited to be there. He struggled with the question “What would you change about Lafayette?” and it seemed that there may have been more he felt he couldn’t share. The first building we saw, for science and engineering, were very nice and new. The buildings got older as the tour went on. It was hard to get a sense of the culture, as students had just left campus when we toured. The mock dorm room was large but had cinderblock walls. They should really pick a different room to show, as I heard several people in our group comment negatively about the room. This is one of those school that I feel we could have loved if we’d had a different tour guide, but first impressions are hard to shake.

William and Mary: (Up) The admissions officer presented without slides and provided very basic information that could easily be obtained from the website. She brought a student in for a few basic questions, but overall, the info session did not feel like a good use of 30 minutes. She noted that she didn’t understand geography and that there was a blockchain center on campus, which she also didn’t understand. I felt this was a Philistine attitude for a university representative and gave the impression that any science content on the application wouldn’t be critically evaluated by the humanities-major admission staff. Our tour guide was enthusiastic and answered many questions. The campus was beautiful, and the buildings on the modern side were particularly impressive (e.g. the meditation rooms, etc). There was a new building under construction for computer science. On a particularly hot day, it was tough to hear that 40% of underclass dorms are not air conditioned. The interview scheduled after the tour seemed to go really well, and despite there not being students on campus, we got the quirky-nerdy vibe that people use to describe W&M. Despite the admissions talk, we all really liked the place.

Smith College: (Up) The admissions officer, Lia, gave the best info session talk we saw anywhere. As my daughter said, “usually these talks seem to go on forever, but she made an hour fly by.” We were pleased to hear that Smith is 40% STEM majors. The vibe was very friendly, and the school is obviously well-resourced. Everything seemed new inside, while preserving the original look of the buildings outside. Housing was really interesting with 41 independent houses, many with their own food options on-site. Didn’t feel as uber-liberal as I’d heard, but then again, there were few students around. Northampton is possibly the best college town we saw anywhere. I think the admissions officer summed it up well when asked what makes Smith different: “Our students want to change the world. And often, they do.” Beware if you visit that parking is a mess–arrive early, as I had to park 10 minutes away, and that was in summer.

Wesleyan University: (Same) The school feels very established, very Ivy-ish, yet it doesn’t have a clear personality. The central athletic field is odd, but it seems to serve as a de facto quad most of the time. The library is beautiful. The graduated housing options seem to get better with each year you are on campus, with university-owned houses offered to seniors. The surrounding town of Middletown felt a little run down. Our tour guide was possibly too honest with his assessments. He said he was Questbrigde, and this was his “seventh choice, but I screwed up the financial aid forms for the first six.” There was no follow-up of “…but it turned out to be a great place for me,” or anything like that, which was alarming. It gave the impression that this was a backup school for Brown hopefuls, and there wasn’t really a clear identity that stood out. We left wondering how this school can be so selective compared to others we visited that seemed a lot better.

Vassar: (Up) Buildings felt old but not in a bad way, actually kind of classy. Poughkepsie isn’t much, and the part next to the campus only has a few restaurants. The student body vibe was prep-school liberal, but it felt intellectual. Very cold in winters here, but the campus was great when green. The admissions presentation was better than most, and this school really seems to have a distinct personality.

Mount Holyoke: (Up) We liked the quirky/nerdy feel of MHC (in contrast to Smith the prior day, which seemed a little more down-to-business). The buildings were a little older than Smith’s, but very well kept, with a lot of wood interiors, giving it a welcoming feel. The village around it is tiny, but it has what students would need. They could almost advertise the curriculum as “open,” as there are only five required classes. STEM majors are the most popular, with a large percentage going on to graduate programs, especially in biological sciences. The dorms were cozy and homey, with a living room in each, including a piano, clock, and fireplace. The library was stunning, as were all of the buildings, actually. It also felt a good bit less political than Smith. We dropped by the equestrian center just to look in and were taken on a tour. It felt like the quintessential liberal arts college.

Dickinson: (Up) Overall vibe was laid-back and friendly. The emphasis on global learning was clear, down to the pole in the middle of campus with distance markers to their study abroad sites. The town was fantastic, with a great main street and lots of restaurants and shops. It felt like a school that was putting a lot of effort in to move up in the standings.

Bucknell: (Down, did not tour) We had booked a tour at Bucknell, but cancelled after reading a story in their college newspaper about sexual assault on campus. I understand that this can happen anywhere, but the rates they cited were shockingly high and seem like a real problem. We cancelled our tour as a result. The fratty vibe probably would not have been a fit for DD anyway, but otherwise, the school seems like it has a lot going for it.

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My wife took D26 on her first official college visit to Muhlenberg. They thought the campus was pretty and liked that it was within walking distance of town. They especially liked the study abroad program because of its many options, ranging from a short two-week program to a full year. Ultimately, my daughter felt that the campus was just too small, and it is crossed off her list. She did say that this is the type of school she could see herself at but with a more extensive campus. They will be heading to Dickinson and Franklin and Marshall next.

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Elon --It fit all of the boxes that our child was checking, but the tour really turned them off. The tour guide, to her credit, was being brutally honest and not trying to sell the college. One of her comments was, “If you are a male, and you want a social life, you have to join a fraternity.” And made several other comments that were all based around partying. Just not what our child was looking for.

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A quick trip to Washington DC for my future poli sci major. He’s never been so this was a “can I picture myself living in this new city” trip.

American (UP, but maybe OFF) - The presentation/presenter was fantastic - funny, informative, and honest. The presentation DRAGGED though because a bunch of kids kept asking questions that could easily be found on the American website. There was no tour, only a self-guided one. S25 thought the campus was lovely, compact, and had good energy. I thought this could be a good match until…

George Washington (SAME, but maybe OFF) - S25 kept commenting on how they like the buildings, the “campus” was nice, the presentation was great (short and sweet) and the tour guide was energetic and funny. The possible majors are a great match with S25’s interest and goals. However, at the end of it all S25 said he couldn’t picture himself living in WDC and not sure he likes the city AT ALL.

When I followed up with an ask about American, he said “yeah it’s nice, but to do anything fun you have to go into WDC, and I don’t really like WDC.” So we may be eliminating both. Sigh…

They DID like the Georgetown area, but Georgetown isn’t a possibility, unfortunately, for my TO kid.

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Moved down/off the list after visiting:

Duke: The students seemed incredibly stressed here-- and we were there the first day back after a break so they couldn’t have been in exams or in the middle of a stressful project. The food court area was overwhelmingly packed but no one was talking to each other. The student center felt very ‘cold’ (not temperature-- just feeling). Also, my son didn’t like how the freshmen live ‘away’ from central campus.

UC San Diego-- My son left this campus and said, “It’s like a very pretty girl with no personality.” Boom.

San Diego State-- the dorms are terrible. Terrible enough that my son, who is not picky, said no.

U Conn-- Too remote, smelled like manure outside and chemicals inside the academic buildings (my son thought maybe it was carpet off gassing?) Staff did not seem happy at all (in contrast to South Carolina), although we had a very good tour guide.

Moved up:

UNC Charlotte-- this school is growing into itself. Facilities are modern and efficient, rather than than a traditional ivy-covered gothic postcard. This is no postcard. But it seemed like a place that can get you to the next phase of your life and do it efficiently, close to a booming Charlotte. Moved up.

U South Carolina-- Just a really good experience here. The Honors College presentation was wonderful, the campus is gorgeous and the people were friendly. Also, my son noticed that staff on campus (not just students or admissions people) seemed legitimately happy. That impressed him.

Wake Forest-- we both really liked Winston-Salem much more than we expected and Wake is a lovely campus. Safe area, great academics, super baseball team (caught a game!), very knowledgable tour guide, and students seemed very happy to be there. It was, as my son says, “a vibe.”

University of Georgia-- he found his Shangri-La. This place is something special. Everyone we met was warm, approachable, informed and…not sure how to describe this but…real. Like real people who also happen to be together and smart. So much school spirit, beautiful campus, Athens is clearly a fun college town and there is a Target and a standalone Chick Fit A (so much better than an on-campus-food-court one) across the street.

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We went to visit UTK over the weekend and it has definitely gone UP for my S25. To set the scene, he wasn’t overly interested in UTK, but he wants a somewhat unusual major (construction management, aka construction science) which they offer and I wanted him to add a school or two that seemed more like matches with the major. Based on what he said he wanted in terms of school environment, I suggested UTK to him. I think he was humoring me to some extent by including it on his list.

He was invited to an out of state prospective student day on Friday, then tailgate and football game on Saturday (at our expense, this was just facilitated, not a freebie).

The Friday program was great - there was a brief opening welcome then a good detailed tour by energetic, enthusiastic tour guides who answered questions fully and honestly, then there was an info session where there were presenters from the financial aid/bursars offices, honors program, and general student panel; we were comped lunch in the cafeteria; then the prospective students were broken out into future colleges for specific tours.

The tour guides did a good job of highlighting academic buildings, discussing traditions, and talking about school supports and programs. We saw a dorm room which was pretty nice, and which they said was “mid-tier” as it was built in 2014, so not one of the newer buildings. They notes all the dorms have AC, but kind of glossed over the housing crunch for non-freshmen (which I know about from reading here). The student health services seems on par with those for other large schools, as does the rec center. The student Union building was bustling and really very nice inside and seemed like a popular spot for meetings and clubs or just sitting on a comfortable chair. I appreciated the many references to volunteer service and helping others, and I hope this is a real indication of school commitment to service, as it sounded great and really spoke to us.

Lunch was in the all you can eat cafeteria (clearly I had not explained the all you can eat concept to my kid who was shocked that he could just get more, of anything.). He ate a burger and some Mac and cheese, I had grilled chicken and some rice/broccoli/cheese casserole. None were amazing, but all were totally edible and fine. At the desert station they had lots of baked goods, including two that were labeled gluten free and two labeled vegan.

The afternoon tour for us was of the Ag College, as that is where the Construction Science major lives. It’s a little off the beaten path - we took a shuttle bus and I was worried it was really far away, but the bus driver and our tour guide swore it was only a 15-20 minute walk from the student Union. Later we looked at a map and realized there was a path and bridge across campus that made it much shorter than the route we drove.

My kid was a little overwhelmed by the huge number of kids all in the same place as we walked from lunch to the place to meet the shuttle - we were on the main route through campus and there was an off campus housing fair with tables set up that had a lot of students participating, so there was a lot of foot traffic to cut through and just a lot of commotion. Once we got to the Ag campus though, that changed.

The Ag School is on the original old campus - it’s lovely. Lots of leafy trees and classic looking buildings. Those buildings aren’t new and fancy, but weren’t janky either. We had our own tour guide just for the two of us, who was in the same major. This kid answered all of our questions about classes (not hard to get what you need, but may not get the time you want and may have to take some requirements earlier or later, but he’s having no issues); job placement (he got a summer job paying well after his freshman year in California, where he’s from); getting across campus (there’s a 20 minute passing period, it’s no issue); food on the Ag Campus (there’s a good cafe that’s on the meal plan and a 7-11 like grab and go place, sometimes food trucks (we saw two)); and just basic questions about the program. He really liked the opportunity to switch between the bustling main campus and the quieter Ag Campus, which I agreed seemed like a benefit. We quickly looked at some of the labs for the soil science folks and the arena and space for the veterinarians, and the buildings for the food science people, which all seemed nice. He’s really happy at UTK and it showed.

After the tours and day my kid was so pleasantly surprised that UTK moved up to either 2 or 3 on his list.

Saturday was a tailgate and football game. It also happened to be S25’s 18th birthday. So we killed some time in the morning driving through Pigeon Forge to see some classic car expo thing, then driving through the Smoky Mtn National Park - both of which were fun. We got lunch in Market Square in downtown Knoxville and that’s where things took a bit of a negative turn. We had a nice time walking through the park and the farmers market while we waited for our table, then got seated outside at a table bordering the square on a sidewalk. Between ordering and our food arriving a woman walking next to us on the sidewalk collapsed. She was either having an epileptic seizure or an overdose (would be my guess”. People called 911, someone who seemed to have medical training assisted her and the paramedics responded, but there was a lot of blood from her head hitting the ground, she was twitching a lot, and it was very scary to watch. Maybe because it was hot, he was dehydrated, little low on sugar, or just freaked out by being right next to it, but this really upset my kid. He turned green and I sent him inside. He almost made it to the bathroom, but hai vision tunneled and he fainted. A waiter helped him, he got some water cooled down and eventually came back out. And then our food came. Needless to say, neither of us had much appetite and it put a real damper on what had started as an upbeat positive day. I know these things happen everywhere, but this is going to be hard for him to forget as it really overshadowed the day.

Then we took a LONG walk onto campus to get to the tailgate, only to find that there were no activities other than campus tours, which we didn’t need to do again. Neither of us felt able to eat yet, so the tailgate was kind of a bust.

We did walk around campus more and saw more normal tailgates and students and alums, so that gave him a better view into what it would really be like, which was nice. We were able to watch the Vol Walk of the players walking into the stadium and the marching band walk, which were fun. Then we headed to our seats… and had to kill 90 minutes. The whole day just felt like a lot of go somewhere and wait, and it just wasn’t as fun or as well produced as the day before. The football game was a blast though, so much fun.

Overall, even with the scary incident, he really liked the school, the vibe, and the program and it has moved up on his list.

Here’s a picture of Neyland Stadium. (Not the best, but the only without my kid in it)

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Took D26 on a college visit trip last week- she wants a SLAC, lots of diversity and strong STEM programs. Here are her impressions:

Brandeis University: (Up) Wasn’t expecting such a pretty campus- it was quite nice, well laid out and even had a little pond in the middle of the freshman dorms quad. Info session was great, kids were diverse and friendly. My daughter was happy to learn it’s the second smallest R1 school in the country, so lots of research dollars and opportunities to be had. Although it’s a smaller school, intro STEM classes do have 100-150+ students in them- our tour guide said several times that profs are very approachable and available, despite larger class sizes the first year. My kid described it as 'diverse, inclusive, social justice focused"

Mount Holyoke College: (Up) Well, it’s as gorgeous as you’ve read. Stunning library- I asked the tour guide ‘are you sure we’re not at Hogwarts?’ The science building is particularly nice- probably one of the prettiest spaces we’ve seen. The student tour guides were SO enthusiastic about the school. Students seemed diverse, engaged and happy to be there. Interestingly, neither the tour guides nor the AO during the info session talked about it being a historically women’s college- that seems like a big decision making point for a high school student, yet they didn’t talk about it at all. The Equestrian Center is fabulous and has a nice lounge/study space for students, and it’s walkable from campus. They have club Dressage & Western teams, and a varsity Hunter team. Takeaways: Beautiful campus, quirky and smart students, lots of campus traditions

Smith College: (Way Up) One of the best tours we’ve been on- the tour guides were absolutely passionate about their school, the house system and all of the opportunities the school provides. Impressive science center and lab space. Northampton is a really cute little town, walkable from campus. Because MHC is more quirky, I thought my kid would prefer it- but nope, Smith really resonated with her for some reason. The students said that with the open curriculum it’s easy to study in multiple areas, getting their major requirements filled was no problem. Definitely different from my older kid’s experience at another open curriculum school, where he’s stressing to get all of his required classes in (open curriculum is great- but check out the major requirements, as they can be substantial!) Overall, my kiddo said Smith was friendly, intellectual and challenging (in a good way), had a very strong community vibe.

Wesleyan U: (Down) This was, unfortunately, the worst college tour I’ve been on (and I’ve been on lots). The tour guide answered every single question with, “wow- that’s a really good question…I don’t know the answer!” Their tour was all facts about the school that we already knew, no personal reflection as to what makes Wes unique, why they liked it, etc. The campus just felt weird with the field in the middle- and my kid said the dorms looked like jail cells. Tour guide said that roommates are completely randomly assigned, no questionnaire or anything- that was enough to cause anxiety in my kid. The few buildings we went into weren’t impressive- I’m sure there are some beautiful spaces on campus, but unfortunately the tour didn’t take us into any of them. I was so disappointed because I thought Wesleyan might shoot up to the top of her list after she saw it, but instead she probably won’t apply. Takeaways: with a better tour guide, I think this one might have been considered, but probably off her list.

We also drove through the Wheaton College campus on the way back to the airport- it had a really pretty campus with a lake in the middle, nice buildings and is one she’ll check out further.

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