<p>Yeah, I’m pretty fed up with my roommate as well. At first I thought she was really cool and we hung out a bit. THEN she finally found her clique, aka her pot smoking clique. Apparently not only does she do alot of pot she also sells it, i saw her hiding a scale and the smell is all over the room. She’s also really inconsiderate. She has these freaking blacklights and glow in the dark crap that she has on the walls that she always has on. She makes so much noise when she’s in the room. For example, I ALWAYS wear my headphone, not her, her damn dubstep crap is what i hear alll day. She’s stays up to ridiculous hours with these damn bright red and blue lights on until like three in the morning. But if i happen to turn on a light in the morning (curtains closed) on the tues or thurs when she has NO classes(I have classes everyday) She gets anoyed " Can you turn those off, i wanna sleep in." UGHHH!!
I’m usually in the room studying or hanging out but when im not she’s always with her nefarious group of friends and the room smells like pot. I know it aggravates her when im in the room alot, but i dont care. If i wasnt there she and her pot smoking croonies would be. Ughh,it feels nice to get this off my chest. I hate living with her, she has a typical spoiled no supervision complex (she told me that her parents are doctors who were never around), drives a mercedes and oh i a complete hipster-hippie. I detest her and i wish like someothers who posted that she’d move out in the spring, since she wants her own place next school yr. Lately, she’s been sleeping at her bf’s place(another issue) and comes in the morning, but whe she is here i want to strangle her. I try to talk to her about some of these things but it’s ridiculous that i have to tell her everything. B<strong>ch i shouldn’t have to tell you that making macaroni at 3:35 am is annoying while skyping your dumba</strong> friends (I told her not to do that and she looked annoyed but said"oh…i didnt think that would bother you…" shfufuhfjhdfhgfaw.
I don’t hate her…yet.
She makes me sick…literally…I have headaches all the time and have lost a substantial amount of sleep time. She’s in the room right now listening to some techno stuff, I’m tempted to chuck the laptop at her face…smh, her hard head would probably break the laptop, not the other way around. What a great freshman yr</p>
<p>I feel you guys here… This is my third year in school and in my most stressful time preparing myself to graduate I am busy working and picking up after my inconsiderate roommate. </p>
<p>Sometimes I wonder if I entered into this agreement because I was naive and wanted to finally be free of any tie to my family. Whilst getting a place with you has helped me grow immensely into being my own person and dealing in my own successes, over the past year we have lived together I am starting to find it harder and harder to be able to relate to you and sometimes even get along with you. Most of my frustrations are things your ex roommate has talked with you about in the past, like cleanliness and organization, which was the reasoning for her to tell you that she could not stand to live with you any longer. We only have a few months left together and it’s stupid for us to give up now. We have made good progress but over the past 15 months, but the little bit of progress we have made shouldn’t of had to have been an issue for even five months. In the beginning I would say something about dishes or clothes… clutter. You were always too busy. I would come home from working four days a week, six to eight hours a day, and four classes a week, three of which were six hour classes, to a pile of dishes in the sink since the previous week and your clutter/clothes all over the house. You never vacuumed… and the only time we ever cleaned together was when YOUR parents were coming to town and I HELPED you clean because you asked me to. Then when we started cleaning, you would clean AROUND your stuff and bags of clutter sitting on the floor. Getting you to put things away was like pulling the teeth from a screaming toddler! When attempting to go to bed I always felt I needed to kick you AND all of your stuff out of MY bed in order to even sleep. Then when you would finally vacate the premises to shower you would leave remnants of your presence in the form of crumbs from whatever thing you had been mindlessly snacking on. Thanks for that. -_- Oh, and remember that time when it was 3am and you went up to your bed and I had to vacuum your blanket of erasure shavings you left in my bed? Thanks for that too. You sometimes really are the most inconsiderate person I know.
You tend to put the blame on everyone around you, your parents, your instructors, the school itself, friends, other family members, for various things. You have only once in the three years I have known you owned up to anything and that was YESTERDAY. I wanted so badly to say I was proud of you for finally being honest with yourself and not lying to your own roommate but I bit my tongue because the next bit of word vomit that fell from your mouth you said without eye contact and you and I both know why. I even called you out on it too and yet still no apology! At this point an apology would be an insult for how much of my time you wasted with the empty promises you gave me. Now with someone giving you a taste of what you did to me, all of a sudden it’s a shock and you are the victim and no one else is serious about anything. Wow. What a shocker. What is it that you always say? Womp womp? Yeah. Womp womp. You done screwed yourself and now you’re feeling the heat of graduation approaching and you haven’t done a damn thing but complain, proclaim, and mooch your way to an elitist status of amateur commentator on every damn internet forum. That cocky attitude you got? I’m waiting for that insecurity front to blow up in your face. I’m actually reveling in it because you make me so angry with how fake you are. </p>
<p>Question. Why when you know you have homework due at 9am you don’t start it until 3am?
Question. Why when you say you will do the dishes you end up taking three weeks to do them and when I confront you about it you act like an eleven year old being told to do chores?
Question. Why do you feel you are entitled to everything?
Question. Why does everything have to have a root of being “epically nerdy” or “super lesbian”?
Question. Why is it that you can spend money on the STUPIDEST stuff that you only ever use ONCE for some event that you go to so you can hashtag it on twitter, but you can’t spare the ten bucks to buy us a new pan because you set our other one on FIRE because you were reading internet forums rather than watching the stove. -<em>-
Question. Since when did you even discuss with me the fact that you were opening a FISH AND AQUA PLANT STORE IN OUR APARTMENT?! Dick move man. Landlord said we could have ONE fish! you now have three tanks with about 30 or more shrimp, at least ten or so fish, and tons of plants. Yet I’m the one who is always home when inspection comes around and has to explain what is going on. Thanks.
Not so much a question as it is a statement but you aren’t trustworthy. With anything. Period. Hence why you can’t borrow any of my stuff anymore.
Question. If you filled OUR apartment with YOUR stuff and the only pieces of furniture I have to my name in this entire place is my drafting table, my mattress, and my TV stand… then WHY FOR THE LOVE OF GOD DO YOU ONLY COMMANDEER MY DESK, MY BED, AND MY STAND?! You didn’t want a desk, remember? You said we could put my desk… IN THE CLOSET, in case I wanted to use it. Otherwise… <em>in that voice you find to be so cute and amusing that you do</em> “we’d have so much spaaaaaaace! XP” Yeah. For what? Would I get my bed back then?! Could I pretty please have that at least all to myself? I highly doubt it. Considering I *complained about you for the house being a mess all the time and you said it was because you didn’t have a desk so you went out and got a desk and now your desk takes up a quarter of the room AND your stuff is still in piles scattered about the house AND on the floor AND shoved in conspicuous places, UNORGANIZED, within our small closet that we share. -</em>_______- Oh, and another thing. Before you go asking me in that accusing voice if I have seen something you have lost… why don’t you consider the fact that you don’t seem to care about anything that your parents provide for you and then think about putting things away with a god damned purpose for once. </p>
<p>It is now 4am… she started her homework that is due at 9am around 3am. She said she was going to take a nap and finish her homework before class. Wow. I mean… I only have one other person I can honestly tell about this nonsense of her wasting time and then saying she doesn’t have time to clean up after herself or take responsibility for household things that need taking care of, like a light in our bathroom, because she is too busy. I’ll tell you what she is busy with. FORUMS! Sitting on forums that talk about the latest nerd trend and pumping her ego with stuff that will never matter once she graduates. An employer will not care that you have watched god knows how many shows and know whatever internet memes. </p>
<p>I honestly hope she does well for herself because if she doesn’t then she will probably become part of the 80% of the 99% on welfare saying that the world owes her something. -_-</p>
<p>My roommate is annoying.</p>
<p>EDIT: It’s “No-shave-november” and whenever he walks into the room now, I always think he’s a hobo.</p>
<p>I honestly don’t hate my roommate, or at least I hope I don’t. She is a cool person, but at the same time she can be so self righteous. </p>
<p>I don’t think she will ever see things in another light because she has been babied her entire life. “I worked all summer, it sucked. But I made $800 a week and bought this cool thing that I don’t need!” “Oh, what’d you do to make 800 a week?” “I was basically my parents slave… did dishes… helped out around the house.” </p>
<p>… ><em>> so what you are really saying is your parents paid you almost a grand a week to do things that to most people is considered simple chores that are expected of you? How quaint. You must be so exhausted, please… let me fan you. -</em>__- You worthless sack of selfish entitled garbage.</p>
<p>Dear Roommate,</p>
<p>Can you not bring guys into the room without knocking? I was changing and that was unbelievably awkward.</p>
<p>Dear roommate,</p>
<p>Like me, you’re a science major. How is it that you’re failing PRE-REQS?</p>
<p>My roommate has night terrors. Every night and I mean EVERY night she wakes me up screaming, yelling, moaning, or sometimes shouting words. I have earplugs and everything and it just doesn’t even work! She also has tons of books on devil worship, she plays with ouija boards, she wears a creepy snake armband evrywhere, and she makes references to a machete she has at home and was upset she could not bring to college. She is legitimately insane. I know every dorm has the resident “weird girl” or two, but I hate living with her. The worst part is that all weirdness besides, she is a very nice person, and I feel bad about disliking her. But I feel like sleep deprivation may have something to do with my emotions.</p>
<p>Update on my situation: SHE IS LEAVINGGGGGG!!! Unfortuntely or fortunately, she’s moving to a single down the hall. This just shows me that she doesn’t know how to live with people and i was right all along about her being a spoiled, selfish brat.</p>
<p>I cried when you told me that you weren’t even supposed to be living here, I really did. That’s just some sick joke. How on earth did I get the luck to be put with someone who shouldn’t even be living in a dorm?</p>
<p>Why can’t you ever use headphones? I know you have them. I’m sick of hearing the same weird hip hop song on repeat. Over and over and over. When I’m trying to sleep no less, at 2 in the morning?!?! And I’m not taking biology, so I don’t want to listen to your lectures about kangaroo testicles. </p>
<p>Your food smells disgusting. If you’re going to eat it in here, then chip in for some Febreeze. Seriously, what is that spice? It stays in the air and just won’t quit. Speaking of chipping in, want to buy some toilet paper some time? I’ve asked, but you just kept forgetting. Then I found out that you let your friends have rolls of the stuff I buy. WITH MY MONEY. </p>
<p>You expect me to be nice and quiet when you’re studying, but when I’m reading a textbook you’ll come in after class, stand right behind me and launch into stories about people I don’t know or care about, made worse by the fact that you can’t speak English properly, and have an annoying accent. I find it weird that you can talk for half an hour without stopping. Literally without stopping. Just shutup. </p>
<p>And I don’t care if you have friends in the room, but I do care when it’s 3 in the morning and you have friends in the room and you’re sitting there shrieking about boys. </p>
<p>Also, how you manage to get pubes on the sink every day…is just upsetting me. </p>
<p>And everyday you’re whining about a headache, well I have a neurological disorder but I’m not in your face whining it about it. </p>
<p>And when you start crying because you got an A on something and call your mom and expect me to feel bad for you, again shut your mouth. It’s the first semester of my Freshman year and you’re like a horrible stain ruining everything I do. I never want to see your face again, I’m applying to transfer and if I do, I’m not even going to tell you.</p>
<p>ugh adfghdgas I can’t stand my roommate. Right now I’m in the computer lab, with absolutely nothing, because I’m too scared to come back to my room. I have my french final oral exam in 2 hours and I’m going to miss it because of her, since every time I leave the room I’m hesitant to go back in case she’s there with her boyfriend.</p>
<p>Only about one and a half week left with this roommate. For once she actually left for the weekend so I was able to stay. :] It feels good not to have rush and finish my laundry, and work before the weekend. </p>
<p>The last time I complained it was about your insecurity. Well guess what? I was right. Your boyfriend broke up with you again 2 weeks before finals. Eh I guess it was mutual but I was still right. I knew you guys wouldn’t last the way you smothered him.</p>
<p>Also I was actually waiting for you to talk to me about next semester. I saw on facebook before I even came back last weekend that you found a new roommate for next semester. Good for you, but if you would’ve told me to my face I actually would’ve said well I’m transferring out at semester so why don’t you have her move in here. You didn’t so instead on the last day I can at the last hour I will be canceling my contract. You won’t get that option. Funny thing is I have a feeling you are waiting for me to do it because our room would be on the list if you had already moved out. I know this because I would’ve gotten an email, or someone would’ve come to our door asking when they could move in. If no one had picked our room it would still be on the list, but it isn’t.</p>
<p>This past month of not talking to you has really been good on my stress. I mean you are very annoying. Chewing with your mouth open, turning the volume on high for the tv, leaving the tv on, never wearing headphones, and being very loud in the morning/night. The one day the week I have to get up before you I never turn the lights on (go to the bathroom to put make up on, and brush hair) I leave when I’m ready and eat my breakfast in the basement so I don’t wake you. You told me at the start you would get woken up with lights on. Do you think this one last week you could just try and be quieter? I go to bed early because if I don’t I get woken up early by you. Oh and I didn’t say I was mad at you because I actually had gotten over the whole Miss Spoiled act you had (still do), and I was truly focusing on my academics, transferring, and my dog who has kidney failure. I mean come on that old saying your roommates it doesn’t mean you have to be friends is true. We would’ve never been friends if we didn’t live together and even then I never considered you my friend. Sorry.</p>
<p>I think it is acceptable to email asking for the room for a few hours when I need to move out. I mean this whole semester I gave the room to you one day a week for 3 hours. No questions asked, and I always went to the library. Saying you have no where to go is a lie. You tried to pull that last time I asked for the room for not even 1 hour. Seriously?! You can go to the library, basement, study room, and university center to study. You have 2 friends in the same class as you that you could go study with. You have friends where you could go to hang out. You could go eat, or to the many computer labs. Its not like you can’t get off your butt and walk somewhere…you don’t need a friend to go with you every where. I think you are afraid of being alone because it makes you think, and you rather not have to think about some serious stuff. I know its the 2nd day of finals that I want the room, but you haven’t posted your final schedule for me (I posted mine 2 days ago) so I’m going to assume you don’t have any Monday since you haven’t had classes on Mondays for two weeks… seriously</p>
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<p>Last few days with my roommate and I’m so happy.</p>
<p>Our room is the size of a freaking shoe box so our beds have to be bunked because there’s no where else to put her bed and every night that she goes to bed before I do I want to scream and punch the wall. She thrases around all night tossing and turning so hard that my bed shakes under her. She talks in her sleep loudly all the damn time, she moans like she’s having a sex dream (I asked her about it she laughed and was surprised I heard it because she does have a lot of sex dreams apparently and I hear it all the time. It’s gross.), she’s done laundry three times this semester(!) and I see her digging through her dirty laundry for clothes all the time instead of actually paying the $1.50 for the washer and $.75 for the dryer to do her laundry. Good grief. We both have 8am classes MWF but I actually get up for mine. Her alarm goes off every 5 minutes after 7 o’clock and she just lies there. I’m like, “Really?” Someone called her three times at 6 this morning and she just let the phone ring (it’s one of those annoying cha-cha ringers) when it was right by her face. How can you miss that? Not to mention, I’m tired of seeing her in the same filthy sweat pants that she wears for months without washing every. freaking. day. It’s disgusting But tbh, it’s a good day when she brushes her teeth in the mornings. She’ll put on a face full of make up most days to go to class but always manages to “forget” brush her teeth. Gross.</p>
<p>And for about three weeks, I could’ve sworn she reeked of mold. Come to find out, it’s just the DKNY perfume she wears that smells like arse. Plus, she sheds like a dog. there’s hair everywhere (and it’s not mine) all the damn time. Whenever I find one of her hairs in my bed, I just throw it in her’s because I’m sick of it. I’ve asked her to pick up her balls of hair by the door and she just blames it on someone else. !!! 4 of us live in a suite. I have dark brown hair, another girl has black hair, the other has curly hair and she’s the only one with thin, light brown hair. How can you tell me the clumps of your hair collected at the very spot where you brush it daily isn’t yours?! Did the Alopecia Fairy just leave it there? No! It’s yours, so clean it up! She’s a pig. (but to top it off, another roommate left [.] blood in the sink this morning and is all like, “was my nose bleeding this morning?” No, no it wasn’t and you’re disgusting. There’s no way in all holy hell could miss that big red glob of nastiness staring back at you.)</p>
<p>Back to my actual roomate:
She’s damn near comatose most mornings and won’t wake up until after 12:30 but will get super huffy if (God-forbid) I need to print something out at 12 in the afternoon in my room or do anything else in there. Guess what? I don’t care if you need/want to sleep 13 hours a night. Deal with it. The lights are off and the printer will be done in less than 2 minutes. I’ll wait until noon to do anything in the room TR (unless I really need to be somewhere) but if you go to bed at 11pm…how on earth do you sleep until practically one the next day if you’re not sick and completely sober?</p>
<p>Thank God I’m transferring. If I had to deal with her for another semester, I’d bang my head against the wall daily. Typing this up as she’s walking in and out of the room slamming doors is making me mad all over again.</p>
<p>Alright another complaint.</p>
<p>You are not my mother. I do not need to tell you why I want the room. Remember when it was still early in the semester how I would get texts don’t come back until say 1? Did I question why? Nope, was I angry? Yes because some of the times I needed to come back before then but instead I would change my plans for you. I know its exams, and I understand you have exams but seriously for once I would like to have the room. I mean the last time I said could I have the room you said I have no where to go and then didn’t leave until 30 minutes after you said you would. in the end you where in the way when we took the loft down. So this time when I am moving out, and checking out I would like to have the room to myself. I know its a horrible move not to tell you I am moving out, and that I will be deleting you from my life but why should I give you respect when you haven’t given me any respect this whole semester? On top it you say your moving out yet I still see you haven’t actually switched…you can’t just expect the room is yours. The person has to move out, and then if you are quick enough you will get the room. Our room should be showing up as open, and if it was already picked I would have received an email, or a knock on the door from someone asking when they can move in.</p>
<p>Does anyone like their roommate?</p>
<p>@ Dylan: I do, my suitemates and roommate are awesome. My roommate is always extremely apologetic when she tells me she’ll be pulling all-nighters (her biggest problem is procrastinating on essays) and I just tell her that it’s fine since she warns me beforehand. When she sees me getting ready for bed, she’ll go out into our living room and continue her phone chat there, and tries not to make noise when she comes back at 3-4am after a night of partying and drinking (this only happens on the weekends, though, but lately she’s ceased doing this). And my two other suitemates are really friendly. We get along with each other and respect each other’s stuff.</p>
<p>Having a nasty room mate is always a problem, thank God i have some great room mates during my college life.</p>
<p>My roommate is annoying as hell there’s always something she has to say or be nosey about I can’t live here anymore I’ve gotta get out if it’s not one thing she’s nagging or complaining about its the other. I can’t take it anymore just need to find some money pack my bags and good riddance can’t deal with this crap anymore. Living with two female roommates for the first time and sharing a bathroom with one of them has been a night mare I prefer living with guys. I’ve lived with both and guys seem to have less drama then living with two girls. Guahhhh. Both of them need to **** and leave me alone I’ll be gone soon anyways…</p>
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<li>My roommate uses a night light. It would be okay if was hardly noticeable but noooo she just had to get one that practically lights up the whole room.</li>
<li>She is constantly having sex in our room. I’m not a prude or anything she can do whatever she wants but I would like to be able to go into my room without her having sex.</li>
<li>She like to tell me about her sexual adventures. I know we’re girls and we like to gossip but I don’t want to know how long he lasts.
4.“■■■■■ ■■■■■ ■■■■■” that is what she is shouting all the time</li>
<li>She talks on the phone at all hours of the night. I need to sleep!</li>
<li>I think she might be a vampire. She sleeps all day. talks all night. and whenever I come back from class the blinds are shut and it is dark in the room.</li>
<li>She comes back to the room drunk. I don’t care if you drink but do you have to wake me up in the middle of the night </li>
<li>Please stop complaining about how poor you are. Maybe if you stopped shopping online all the time you’d have money.</li>
<li>No i will not go out and buy stuff for you. I’m your roommate not your lackey.</li>
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<p>bump.</p>
<p>This thread is too good of an opportunity not to get things off of your chest, especially about my terrible roommate from last year.</p>
<p>When I first moved into the dorm with my roommate last year, I thought that we would get along relatively well after texting back and forth over the summer. However, when I first came there, she pretty much shunned me and everybody on our floor because she got assigned to a dorm hall that she didn’t want to be in. After the first couple of days, she starting packing stuff in her backpack and staying at friend’s dorms across campus, and complained to them about how much her roommate “sucks” and how she can’t stand living with me even though we had barely spoken to each other, and she had barely spent any time in the room.</p>
<p>After getting into a fight with her friends across campus she started spending more time in the room. She was a complete slob and left empty water bottles, soda cans, food wrappers, and other trash littered around her side of the room. When I was gone one night, she spilled two bottles of vodka all over the floor and left a heap of dirty paper towels with hair and other nasty **** on them in a pile for about a week until I found out about it and threw them out. When leaving for breaks, both roommates are responsible for throwing out trash, cleaning the room, etc. When Thanksgiving break arrived, she left without taking her food out of the fridge OR without taking out HER TRASH, so I had to do it. When I was dumping the trash can into a bigger trash bag, a half eaten sandwich (who knows HOW long that had been in there) missed the bag and plopped right onto the floor, as well as a huge pile of pistachio shells and I had to clean it up. I was so ****ed I left a rather ranting, rageful note for the RA to read when he came back.</p>
<p>She also never studied, and stopped going to a 5 credit hour class for the entire semester after going for the first two weeks. I almost never saw her studying, her main activities each day were Skype and Facebook. She also had this habit of closing the curtains and sitting in the dark on her laptop when it was bright and sunny outside and I hated being in there because it was like a dungeon. She overall never made the effort to get to know me, and because we both lived on an honors floor, she automatically judged me as somebody who wouldn’t be into going out and as somebody she wouldn’t want to associate with. It as also funny how she would say the worst things about me to her friends, but NEVER actually confront me with issues.</p>
<p>Thankfully, she dropped out of college after one semester and I had the room to myself the second semester. We had bunked beds and as I was moving my sheets and stuff to the bottom bunk (which was hers) and lifted the mattress, I was *<strong><em>ed beyond belief. Under her bed, she left dirty socks, sports bras, half eaten bags of chips, food wrappers, half full bottles of soda and water, and other random crap. In her closet she left clothes, including dirty underwear??? why the hell would you leave that stuff behind? And why would you expect somebody ELSE to clean up your *</em></strong> when you left, take the clothes to goodwill or throw them out? I don’t think I’ve met anybody more inconsiderate in my life. </p>
<p>Get a single, kids.</p>