<p>I haven’t seen my roommate in 3-4 weeks. She just shows up occasionally to use the printers.</p>
<p>My suitemates aren’t bad, I don’t know what their room looks like though. The only thing is they NEVER DO THE DISHES. We have a small kitchen/sink. I left first before thanksgiving, and their dishes were in there. They were still there, uncleaned, a week after thanksgiving.</p>
<p>My roommate and I used to be fine, but now that the semester is wrapping up, I literally can barely stand her.</p>
<p>First off, she has absolutely no respect for living with another person. All semester she has been consistently going to bed MUCH later than me, and when getting ready for bed at night, has been turning the light on (which stays on for a good 30-45 minutes)-mind you at 3am when I have 8am classes. The worst part is the bathroom is literally right across the hall…and I do all my getting ready there every morning so I won’t wake her up.
Another thing she does is the days I don’t have early class and I’m trying to sleep, she goes and uses the microwave which is right next to my bed-at like 7am. Just because. And doesn’t attempt to be quiet at all.</p>
<p>Second, she constantly gets mad when I bring a guest over, just to pick something up. I never even have them hang out in the room. She is legit rude to them, to the point that I have to apologize for her behavior.</p>
<p>Third, she always has this guy (who is a friend with benefits) over without asking me or even knocking. One time they almost walked in on me changing. Another time I spent the night hungover…she didn’t ask about that either. Oh, and hid his alcohol in our fridge which is not okay with me at all considering I could get in serious trouble for that.</p>
<p>It’s getting to the point where we aren’t talking at all. And I’m trying to avoid her at all costs.</p>
<p>Well, since ucreject revived the thread, I’m going to jump in. Read at your own choice, but it is a bunch of annoying BS that I need to type out. You were warned.</p>
<p>I am living with the most enormous ■■■■■■ who is the biggest coward I have ever met. Total white trash with no consideration for others, but still afraid to confront face to face. This is a suitemate, we don’t even share the same room. Constantly playing country music in the shared area at 2am or whenever it’s obvious I’m the only one around. Leaves empty cans of spaghettios all over the counters along with regularly a new grocery bag of garbage for days, but the rare occasion I leave a single paper towel or anything out for a few hours without thinking about it, it gets awkwardly tucked under my Foreman grill. When I’m the last person to leave for break, the heat in the unit gets turned up to the 80’s immediately after that one suitemate leaves. The only reasons I can think of is because early on in the year, I casually complained about all the garbage. It could also be because I have no interest in hanging out because we have nothing in common.</p>
<p>The list goes on, and it gets nuttier and nuttier. The other day was the first time we actually had a face-to-face spat. I was forced to write an apology note by the RD because of some things I said in response to finding the trashcan overflowing in front of my door. (Did I mention the crybaby runs to the RA or RD if I get mad?) I guess the apology note wasn’t good enough, so the dip **** saw me come out of my room after the other suitemate left and promptly brought out their *<strong><em>ty Mac and started freaking blasting soft, slow music like it was heavy metal or rap. I kept my cool and calmly asked to turn it down. What did I get in response? “DON"T LISTEN TO YOUR MUSIC, AND I WON’T LISTEN TO MINE.” Repeatedly. Seriously? I keep it in my room and not during freaking pre-finals. If I wanted to drown out that lame crap, I easily could, but I just don’t have the time or patience for this dramatic BS. I have a serious sound system, not some *</em></strong>ty built-in Mac laptop speakers. If I wanted to play games, I would win, but I’m not a nine year old girl. So I don’t.</p>
<p>This person is not my world enough for me to constantly be dreaming up new ways to gain petty revenge for whatever. Just because I choose to ask nicely does not make me worse than the idiot who chooses not to ask and to send a message by being a little pain in the ass. If I wanted to be aggressive, I would take the metal bar from my closet and swing the freaking Mac into the wall. That’s why I really need to get out of here before I do something I regret. It’s a daily chore keeping my temper in check.</p>
<p>Edit: Excuse all the asterisks, I forget. I replaced a few words, but the ones left just seem the best, asterisks or not.</p>
<p>My roommate is the worst. Besides being an absolute slob, she is bat **** crazy and unbelievably inconsiderate. She does not ever do dishes so our sink is filled with nasty old dishes, she fills the garbage with all her organic **** and lets it sit until i or my other roommate takes it out, refuses to clean up the toilet (so much so that I know when it’s her time of the month) and leaves her sweaty and disgusting gym clothes everywhere!!! Honestly… it’s hell. Then theres the fact that she is crazy. I mean she has panic attacks every other day over when to take for lunch, she os obsessive about her weight (need i tell you that she is 114 lbs soak and wet), constantly has high and low mood swings… THEN theres the part where is is unbelievably rude and inconsiderate. My other roommate and I are both full time students attempting to maintain scholarships so we study hard, and for long periods of time. My *<strong><em>ty roommate comes home blasts music and decides to turn her magic bullet on high to blend her protein pancake mix… i get it… you want to be healthy. but eat a *</em></strong>ing salad that I don’t have to listen to liquify for 15 minutes. She also tends to go in my room, take my stuff (my watches in particular) and wear them! The other weekend she wasn’t expecting me home and she had my graduation gift on.her wrist!..
seriously… i need to get outta this situation!</p>