This question may not be a college related topic, but I was just wondering if I could get some helpful advice. But, before I ask you my question, I’m giving this disclaimer because I feel like some people may not want to help me out, but rather just tell me not to worry about it. I went to college because I wanted to continue my education. But, I also wanted to increase my socialization habits as well. Not putting much focus on my socialization is not an option that I’m willing to take. In fact, I’d probably die from boredom with a lack of social fun outside of academic work. I even have a friend who’s like that and I don’t know how he does it. He hardly goes out and stays in his room to work and study.
Question: What would girls think of me if I approached them at a party? Would they like my confidence or would they feel creeped out? Would they view me as a “player” or just some guy who goes up to girls at parties?
Now, this depends on several factors. I’m not going to just go up to them and say something random, but rather introduce myself and see if they are interested in returning the favor by responding to me. Also, I was never the type of guy who would approach girls at parties. Even then, I know that I can do it, but it’s all about the situation and timing. I do know how to talk to other people, but I just never did it to girls out in public, only between my friends or classmates.
Overall, I understand that everyone is different, but I always have a balance of work and play. I’m not a college student who parties too much, but knows how to live a balanced life.