<p>And all this time I thought you were a renaissance man – able to converse equally well on matters great and small.</p>
<p>Oh well. You really don’t get it do you? If you want people to pay attention to your ideas, instead of just you, its important present yourself and your ideas in a way that people are going to want to accept them. Its important to be interested in what others care about for them to be interested in what you care about. It really is pretty simple.</p>
<p>Its interesting, in 1903 Cecil Rhodes endowed a scholarship with the intended purpose of improving the world through the diffusion of leaders motivated to serve their contemporaries, trained in the contemplative life of the mind, and broadened by their acquaintance with one another and by their exposure to cultures different from their own. Take a look at the four criteria contained in his will by which prospective Rhodes Scholars are to be selected:</p>
<p>Literary and scholastic attainments; </p>
<p>Energy to use ones talents to the full, as exemplified by fondness for and success in sports; </p>
<p>Truth, courage, devotion to duty, sympathy for and protection of the weak, kindliness, unselfishness and fellowship; </p>
<p>Moral force of character and instincts to lead, and to take an interest in ones fellow beings. </p>
<p>Think he might have had something there? It really isn’t enough just to be smart.</p>
<p>You have been extended great courtesies by the people of this board to listen to your ideas and discuss them. You, on the other hand, have taken every opportunity to find the most incendiary and vitriolic ways of attacking not only ideas but individuals who don’t agree with you.</p>
<p>You have been given opportunities to lighten up and present yourself as likeable. To which you find ways to become even more obnoxious.</p>
<p>Beyond narcissism, why do you post here? What value do you think your are bringing? What greater purpose are you serving? </p>
<p>Or is it simply all about you?</p>