Must have been a TV show which revealed the mystery of how to tell a paralegal from a lawyer. Otherwise how would #20 know, since #20 isn’t a lawyer?
OP: Beware of advice regarding criminal convictions from individuals who are not attorneys. Particularly priceless:
“Everyone understands that young love often involves a lot of unrestrained emotion.”
That’s 1950s soap opera advice. See a C&F attorney to get reliable guidance.