<p>Re #3 & 4: It is nothing like that at all. It’s fine there. Top tier academic schools can be quite challenging academic environments, but people are for the most part all working hard, in it together, not stealing other people’s notes or the like.</p>
<p>As for “saying it all”: the following are excerpts from the linked article:</p>
<p>"The half-dozen suicides in the current academic year mark the first instances of student suicides at Cornell since 2005. "</p>
<p>“There is a myth surrounding the number of suicides here,” said David I. Stewart, then-director of community relations. “There is not a larger-than-average number of suicides on the Cornell campus.” </p>
<p>"news media often don’t report on suicides because they happen privately and there are often concerns about copycat suicides. </p>
<p>But, “when a death occurs at Cornell in one of our gorges, it’s a very public experience,” he said. "It’s observed by people, many people hear about it, whether or not it is in fact a suicide, and the reality is that when it becomes visible it can create the sense of a higher frequency than it actually is. "</p>
<p>“…reputation as a ‘suicide school,’ which is not consistent with the reality of the statistics”</p>
<p>I went there, and I let my own daughter go there, it’s fine. The suicide rate is right around the national average. There is certainly a tragic cluster of suicides that have taken place there this year, but this rate of suicides there is an anamoly taking place this year, and not the typical state of affairs there over a longer period of time, or even in recent history when there were no suicides there at all.</p>
<p>If you attend Cornell you can expect academic challenges. People should not expect to jump off a bridge about it, absent underlying issues.</p>