<p>It is not as simplistic as you are making it and unfortunately we see on CC and I see every year in my non-CC life what happens when students and families see the cold light of day.</p>
<p>CC can give parents and students a very myopic view of the college going culture as it represents a really, really small section of it.</p>
<p>The reality is that most students in the country attend their local universities and live at home. It is easy to get caught up in the notion of going to college how college looks on TV or being on CC and thinking that everyone is going away to college.</p>
<p>While there are academic full merit (IMO includes, tuition, fees, room, board books and stipends) they are not automatically available or given to very student who meets the threshold for them. The rub is going to be knocking all of the other equally or more talented kid than your kid out of the box. </p>
<p>Most schools also practice preferential packaging to attract the students that they want or need to fulfill the institutional mission (some are just more upfront about telling you).</p>
<p>I think that what parents don’t realize is that stats alone are not telling the whole picture, because you are evaluated in context of your environment. Colleges can fill its schools many times over with high stat kid - STEM kids. But they are also looking to gender balance, to achieve diversity; geographically, racially, economically and across majors. At the end of the day nothing trumps the institutional mission, which changes year over year.</p>
<p>Yes, HYP has “super aid” to the extent that if you make under $200k with normal assets (only your primary resident and some $$ in the bank), you only pay 10%. However, it is not that straight forward for children of divorced parents or have a non-custodial parent, children in blended families, where on or both parents have remarried, self employed parents, business owners, family farms, parents with real-estate other than their primary residence. </p>
<p>The biggest thing that is going to stand between families and Yale is the 6% admit rate and the increasing number of applications that it receives every year, because everyone wants a crack at the super aid.</p>
<p><a href=“http://www.hernandezcollegeconsulting.com/ivy-league-admission-statistics-overall-2018/”>http://www.hernandezcollegeconsulting.com/ivy-league-admission-statistics-overall-2018/</a></p>
<p>Keep reading CC as you will come across many academically talented students who end up with unaffordable options, custodial parents/non-custodial , ex-husbands/ partners who are not willing, can’t afford to pay or don’t feel that the school is “worth” $X or debt. What good is a full tuition scholarship if you cannot afford to pay room, board, airfare, heath insurance and all of the other little misc. expenses that easily add up.</p>
<p>The best thing that any family can do is to use a bottoms up approach to make sure your child has a few financially and academic safety schools (because people like choice) that offers what they want to take, that you can afford (in your situation, you have already stated that you have an uncooperative non-custodial parent, so you must make sure that any option, your child has that you can hold it down by yourself). </p>
<p>You are going to have to put blinders on and look at your singular financial situation and not what someone else got or did not get.</p>