<p>I have always held a very conservative, tough on crime point of view. That was before my recent experience with John. John was adopted as an infant by good friends of ours. John’s birthmom already had 2 kids and didn’t want another one. Our S was born 2 weeks after John and we went to the same church until the boys were 6 or so, and the 2 families spent a lot of time together.</p>
<p>John was pretty much trouble from day 1. He was a difficult baby, a feisty toddler, and a violent preschooler. I remember working in the 5 year old Sunday School class and having to shelter the other children because John got mad and started throwing chairs. </p>
<p>John’s adoptive parents were a model couple: well educated, church going, and loving. They adopted an infant D 2 years later and she was and is fine.</p>
<p>As you can imagine, school was a nightmare. John was on ADHD meds in kindergarten and all through his school years there were different meds, different counselors, and different disciplinary techniques. They tried everything. He is actually pretty intelligent, so he was able to keep up in school even though he usually didn’t do all of his work.</p>
<p>During his high school years, his parents were frightened of him. Somewhere during that time he was diagnosed with bipolar disorder in addition to the ADHD. Even with his angry and violent outbursts, he never hurt anyone. He was more into bashing walls and furniture. Finally one night in January, his sister got scared during one of his outbursts and called 911. The police came, took him to the county mental hospital where they held him for 4 hours and then decided he had calmed down and it was fine for him to leave (oh, brother).</p>
<p>My friends said he could not come back home to live. (He is 18, and was a senior, though he was mostly skipping school by this point.) After a week or two of him crashing with friends, they all sat down and talked and they told him they were going to put him in an apartment for 6 months and he was to get a job and they would help him transition to living on his own. 2 months later he was arrested for burglarizing some schools and a home with 2 other young men. Now he is in jail. S2 goes to visit him every week and says that John doesn’t really seem to understand that he is in jail because he did something wrong.</p>
<p>It appears he will be offered 5 years adjudication (probation) and will be released soon. So here is where I become a bleeding heart liberal. My sister is an experienced probation officer and I have talked to her about John. She says that there is no way a kid like him will complete his probation. It requires showing up to your scheduled meetings with your probation officer, holding down a job, paying fines and restitution (he’ll owe $5,000+), doing communty service, and passing random drug tests.</p>
<p>Knowing John for his whole life, I know that this kid never had a chance. He had the strong family and access to good medical and psychiatric care and he still couldn’t stay out of trouble. It’s kind of like putting a Down’s Syndrome kid in prison because they couldn’t pass their high school exit exams. If they can’t do it, they can’t do it. So what’s the solution? That doesn’t mean you can have people like John running around and terrorizing everyone. Still, it’s a shame that he will likely not make his probation and then be sent to prison for 2-5 years. And after that, who knows? My sister says that time and maturity actually do help some people to turn things around eventually.</p>
<p>Oh, and just as an aside…John will be on probation and have to get to appointments and will have to hold down a job, yet the county seized his car since it was used in the commission of a felony. It’s like they are setting him up for failure.</p>
<p>And one more aside regarding the original topic of the genetic nature of criminal behavior. A couple of years ago, there was a particularly brutal assault that happened in our city. One of the two young men who was convicted for the crime was a couple of years older than John and bore a striking resemblance to him when he was shown on t.v. during the trial. Makes you wonder.</p>