You need to go to a university which is a very good fit for you.
It is relatively common for students to want to go to a university where their significant other goes, and then have the relationship break up before the end of the first year. This can in some cases lead to significant problems, and transferring is sometimes possible but can be a pain for multiple reasons (potentially including financial reasons). The one case that I am most familiar with the relationship did break up before the end of the first year, but fortunately the university was a very good match for both students so it was fine.
I am not familiar with the architecture program at A&M, nor do I know if there even is one. However, only go there if it has the program you are looking for, and it is financially reasonable and in-budget, and you would want to be there anyway.