Thank you for your quick responses!
Our general rule of thumb re what we are willing to pay is ‘instate equivalent’ range…being originally from Canada it simply isn’t in our DNA haha to pay 50k-70k+/yr for college! I have heard that over the past few years Madison was offering instate NM kids partial(?3/4)) tuition for one year, after finally noticing that very few of them were choosing Madison over big offers from other states