<p>We are facing pretty much the same hard choice here in PA–OSS at W&M (@$40,000) or OSS at U of Delaware (in the Honors program and with a merit scholarship, total cost about $22,000). Our son will be attending “admitted” days at both schools as well, and we’re hoping that the visits will clarify things for him. Maybe that will be the case with your daughter, too? You can decide not to decide until after the admitted days events! Good luck–our kids are fortunate to have good choices, but it won’t be easy!</p>