I’d take another look at James Madison. Nothing wrong with a broader program; the focus for her will be internships anyway. But they should meet your cost requirements without aid, and it is driveable from Mass. Big sports programs there and has become popular with northeasterners.
East Carolina is a large school with Div 1 teams, had some football success, and is an hour outside Raleigh.
If you do visit Louisville, Cincinnati is nearby. Pittsburgh on the way if you drive. Compact city campuses for both. Pro + college sports. SUNY-Buffalo does not draw many from out-of-state, they may meet your price.