<p>For others who may read this thread, it was resurrected in May 2013. All the subsequent posts pertain to that post. The poster had learned that her 9th grader in BS had become sexually active with steady partner. The student had researched birth control and safe sex, conferred with health teacher, and used appropriate precautions. Either that poster or another also mentioned sexual experimentation amongst girls in the dorm.</p>
<p>The parent had concerns about maturity, child going against firmly stated family expectations, and child’s announcement that kids at BS can pretty much do whatever they want as long as they keep their grades up. Last part did not seem to have been spoken flippantly but more just trying to get through to the parents about the level of freedom at BS.</p>
<p>I am sorry the post was removed because it expressed concerns of many parents and gave sense to the posts that follow. I am guessing that the poster became afraid that they or their child might be identifiable although it seemed very safely worded.</p>