dating in college

<p>how hard is it to ask a hot girl out on a date? and do girls look at how popular the guy is, how athletic he is, how he dresses…what else do girls look at…</p>

<p>its not different from dating at any other place</p>

<p>Personality. And guys who only care about getting the hottest girl they can get are usually a turn off to all girls. Including the hot ones.</p>

<p>things like popularity mattered more in High School…in College and Real Life, this does not factor in as much…its more of what you’ve got to offer than what click your with</p>

<p>if she’s giving you all the “signals”…give it a shot…worse case scenario, you get turned down and have to date one of the other thousands of insanely hot women on campus ;)</p>

<p>It’s like dating anywhere else. Don’t make rules for yourself.</p>

<p>Popularity doesn’t matter but it’s real-world equivalent, high status, does. Good social skills, having your life in order, knowing what you want and being able to get it, that type stuff. Stuff like athletics doesn’t matter at all, how you dress doesn’t really matter unless its completely radical, good hygiene is a must. Looks probably matter a little at first like they always do but not once you’ve already met and spent time with the girl.</p>

<p>It’s really interesting how guys think about dating. A lot of average type guys only want the hot girls, and a lot of “hot” girls will date average type guys. In college do you often find hot guys dating average type girls or does it generally tend to be the hot girl w/ the average guy? If a hot guy met an average or dare I say it, slightly <em>fat</em> girl would he even consider her?</p>

<p>People don’t ‘date’ that much at most colleges anyway; they hook up randomly, or perhaps they become boyfriend and girlfriend. But dates? Not too many of them…</p>

<p>Instead of worrying how hot people are or you are, just work on getting to know people. If something real is going to happen, it will happen no matter what you or the other person looks like. Besides, looks can only get you so far, it’s their personality that you’re going to have to deal with in the long run.</p>

<p>how hard is it? it’s not…you go up to a girl and ask her out…you ever dated in high school?</p>

<p>Asking a girl out isn’t like applying to college. They don’t take home your “application” and review your “athleticism”, “popularity” and “wardrobe”. It’s all about chemistry. Some people are just drawn to each other. Just be yourself and hope for the best. Being charismatic helps.</p>

<p>Haha, TomK, that’s exactly what I was thinking. This reads like a “what are my chances” post!</p>

<p>filmy will you go on a date with me?</p>

<p>haha…teh Internet dating <em>chuckles</em></p>

<p>will i get cooties if i touch a girl in college???</p>

<p>Yes, girls in college are icky and carry dangerous diseases such as cooties and smallpox.</p>

<p>This really is like a “What are my chances?” thread. I laughed.</p>

<p>EDIT: I only date hot girls.
EDIT²: I am really, really ridiculously good looking, on the track team, and dress well. Hope that helps.</p>

<p>And humble as well!</p>

<p>:)</p>

<p>And sarcastic to boot!</p>

<p>Ecliptica, maybe there’s more to life than being really, really ridiculously good looking?</p>

<p>lmao…zoolander… =D</p>

<p>You’re right.</p>

<p>Maybe we should be doing something more meaningful with our lives. . .like. . .helping people?</p>