If I may, I would like to offer some first reaction off-the-cuff comments.
It seems as though you wanted your daughter to stop growing.
Why is your daughter’s former boyfriend texting you ? This is weird and makes me wonder who was in a relationship with whom.
I am on the side of the ex-boyfriend’s parents who demanded that their son continue to grow & to mature.
P.S. On the positive side, it does seem as though this situation has the makings of a solid country song.
P.P.S. @MaineLonghorn wrote a potential title for the country song:
“Let.It.Go.”
Next line: Let. Them. Grow.