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I can definitely relate to this sentiment. My son and I have spoken about the importance of keeping the long term objective in mind (a degree in his chosen field, so he can get the kind of job he wants), and not worrying so much about the exact path to that objective (4 years, 6 years, whatever).</p>
<p>While he is on his unplanned gap year, he is gaining the skills and maturity to help him succeed in the future. At times (when I am in a particularly philosophical frame of mind :)), I am even able to view this gap year as a gift. I get to spend more (relaxed) time with him, and he has the time to learn all sorts of life skills that we never had time for before (cooking, grocery shopping, changing tires, making doctor’s appts, etc.)</p>
<p>I wish you and your D all the best.</p>