My young self says no problem since I was that boyfriend but my old parent self says no. Weird how views change. Many colleges have rooms for guests. Usually cheaper then a hotel. Arbnb at many places are very reasonable. Sure the whole I will be out of the room to midnight but I will be sleeping in my bed thing is a compromise. But the smell and sounds of sex will be there. Doesn’t sound as attractive as it once was… Hmmmm…
I think in this new generation the burden is on the roommate… These are smart kids. They can figure it out. Many youth hostels have family rooms. Cheaper then a hotel and you can go and pay cash.