<p>Good point but maybe it was not done maliciously ? My mother still treats all 3 boys in our family ( young men ? ) equally vis a vis money at Christmas etc but she did occasionally throw my youngest an extra 50 for a prefect report card. The other two did not really try in high school so while she never mentioned it she wasn’t waving 50 dollar bills for D’s on report cards. ( ESP when they could have been a’s!!!</p>