<p>what i havent seen addressed is the relationship betweent the three sisters. how would they feel about the older “spolied/special favorite” getting money from grandparents and they get nothing</p>
<p>they could end up really resentful of older sister, and those relationships are more important then snooty grandparents</p>
<p>if you want to put a wedge in the family relationships even more, take the money, </p>
<p>the older daughter is not deserving of gp money over the others. knowing how sibling behave at different ages, and how the younger ones might have had a more complicated time of it then the “chosen” one, she shouldn’t get all the rewards</p>
<p>their relationships with each other is more important that with dad and gps, so thing long and hard before letting the oldest get all the goodies, that will backfire on everyone and if she gets mad at dad for not taking the money, she could be a bit of a brat</p>