<p>Oh so only assist the “stars”? That’s kind of obnoxious. Oh, you aren’t as special as number one son and your only going to state school so we won’t help, this dismissing you. I find that elitist in a very sad way. If I had a young daughter who loved to paint but wasn’t the best painter, do I not pay for art lessons or buy her paints? Not going to Harvard doesn’t make one less deserving then another. Makes me sad that other kids interests are supported by some parents becuase they aren’t seen as special. I knew a family like that, it was all about the sons sports. Daughters interests and ecs always took second place. She resents that, and had every right too.</p>
<p>It doesn’t always have to be equal but it should be fair.</p>