<p>While HYP has more “name value” of the 3 schools Princeton is the only one that is focused on undergrad education as HY are taught by TA’s or teaching fellows. </p>
<p>In addition, the culture is different at each school. Yes, it is true that Harvard has a wow factor but it is also true that Harvard undergraduates are more likely than students at other elite private institutions to be unhappy with their life on campus, according to an analysis of a recent survey of student satisfaction. On a five-point scale, Harvard students’ overall satisfaction is 3.95, compared to an average of 4.16 from the 30 other schools surveyed by the Consortium on Financing Higher Education, which includes all eight Ivies, along with top research institutions and small liberal arts schools. </p>
<p>So is it “worth” it to attend Harvard for 4 years and not have a totally fulfilling experience? For some, yes, because it is Harvard, for others it is not worth it. </p>
<p>As a parent, I think you should choose education over a “name”. You will have to sit down with your son and talk about what he wants/needs in an education and how Dartmouth (or even if Dartmouth) meets those needs.</p>
<p>The whole concept of worth means different things to different people. Id we are talking turning down an education that is close to free to go into debt to the tune of $43k per year for the next 4 years, then you will have to decide if there is truly an appreciable difference. </p>
<p>Will sending your son to Dartmouth mean that you will be paying for it using your retirement funds?</p>
<p>Will you be taking on massive debt to achieve this?</p>
<p>Do you already have the $$ and don’t beleive that the “product” is worth what Dartmouth is charging for it.</p>
<p>For our family, 4 years is a short amount time in my D’s lifespan. As she is wrapping up her second year, she has never looked back, never had a moment’s regret and so far has had a great experience both in and outside of the classroom. I have seen how much she has grown since she started college, but most important I like the person that she is becoming as she grows into her womanhood. </p>
<p>While she may not be at HYP (Dartmouth is no consolation prize to her because it was her first choice) and even though when people ask her where she goes to school and she responds Dartmouth, and she is given the where is that look, she could not see herself being anywhere else but Dartmouth.</p>
<p>When it comes to money, we have all spent more on things that have been “worth” less. If you have it and can afford it, what else are you going to spend it on? When it is all said and done, your kid is not going to want your money when you are dead and you’re never going to see a Brinks truck following a hearse.</p>