Decision/Reply-by date conflict

<p>The decisions for my top choice are released in “early June”.
The deadline to submit an intent to register to 3 schools I’ve applied (and will likely be admitted to) is June 1st.</p>

<p>I was planning on asking my selective 1st choice to send my decision in May. I figured this would be easier than asking three schools to extend their deadline.</p>

<p>However, I’ve been told by a source I don’t trust (my sister) that doing this is an auto-reject. This was apparently the unspoken policy in the LAW SCHOOL admissions office she volunteered in as a student. She has also been heard yelling that deadline extensions can’t be asked for either. She has been making me fearful to even anonymously call one of the colleges.</p>

<p>Any advice?</p>