@BadParent , I appreciate your thought and post. Your choice of words of how you guide your young Adult children is perfect. We understand that all kids and young adults are in need of individualized care. I don’t see a single issue or negative thought in your post. I don’t understand the long winded outrage by some posters above. Feel free to post as much or as little as you want, anytime you want. Speak your mind because I think that is the point of this Parent Cafe. Sometimes I’m a “Bad Parent”, your screen name makes me smile.