Deferred CS

In state, CS of engineering. ACT 36, GPA3.98/4.53, varsity sports State honor, music, very disappointed

Wow. I’m sorry to hear that.

Visit, send statement of continuibg interest, ask if sending subject tests could help.
In any case, pivot. It’s time for you to find really old schools for CS - umass Amherst, u Wisconsin, u Washington, Harvey mudd, etc. - plus two safeties (umn Morris?)
Runbthe NPC for each and show the results to your parents as most haven’t realized how much college priced have increased .