<p>We can argue until we’re blue in the face about how rare is “rare” and the exact numbers. The point is that there are plenty of people at all of HYPSM that got rejected from other schools in HYPSM. Take this scenario: a perfectly qualified, genuinely nice and very smart with plenty of intellectual vitality and entrepreneurial spirit gets into Harvard and rejected by Stanford. Why? Hint: it’s not because the Harvard admissions committee happened to not see the “last straw” that earned the guy a rejection from Stanford. There probably was no “last straw” or real, concrete reason that the kid didn’t get into Stanford other than the fact that there just aren’t enough beds on Stanford’s campus to house all of the superbly qualified kids that apply. I know that you’ve heard that a thousand times, but I really do think it’s true. </p>
<p>I had a conversation with an admissions officer when I visited Yale (I know it’s strange, but they are real people). Naturally, I had a bunch of questions for him, but one of the most intriguing thing that he said was that, in any given year, they could accept all the kids off the waitlist, reject 1000 of the original acceptees (Yale usually accepts 2,000 and waitlists 1,000, give or take), and NO ONE except the admissions office would know the difference.</p>
<p>The reality is that you will NEVER know why you were deferred/accepted/rejected/waitlisted from all of your schools. You will NEVER know why you were accepted to some, waitlisted by others, and rejected by the rest. There’s really no use in speculation; just put your best foot forward on the applications you are about to submit and see what happens. Like I said in my first post on this page, there IS a school out there that WANTS you, you’ll just have to wait until March to find out which one it is.</p>
<p>On a related note: you will only go to one college. It actually doesn’t matter where you get in otherwise. No one at Yale wants to compare where they were accepted. I’ve only had that conversation with a few of my closest friends; it really doesn’t come up in normal conversation. I have one good friend who straight up said “If I had all the choices you had, I can’t honestly say that I’d be at Yale,” but he also doesn’t whine about having to go to Yale instead of Princeton or Harvard. The fact of the matter is that you will all end up at a school that you love or will love eventually. If by this time next year you have not yet realized that you love the university you go to, feel free to unearth this thread, whine and complain, or even cuss me out. Just give it a little time. Trust me, things will work out in the end.</p>
<p>Believe it or not, your SAT doesn’t actually matter anymore. As soon as you submit your last applications, NO ONE WILL EVER ASK YOU FOR IT AGAIN. No one talks about high school (or college) GPA. No one actually cares. The only thing that matters is that you are where you are.</p>
<p>Sorry if that was a bit snippy…I had a bad day today, but I still feel like all of this needed to be said.</p>