A cautionary tale: My MIL was living close to us in assisted living. Her grandson was getting married at a winery in Northern California, about a six hour drive away. He sent an invitation to his grandmother (MIL) but not one to us. Clearly, either he wasn’t thinking or he was just inviting his grandmother as a pro forma thing knowing that without us to drive her there, she wouldn’t be able to come. It was rude. Were we supposed to drive grandma to the wedding and then sit in the car waiting for her to come out?
Destination weddings can create issues like this. Another thing to consider.