<p>Strick, yup, I agree with you and TheDad and all others who consider on a case by case basis. So many different people…so many different schools. Some of these choices are agonizing especially when good arguments can be made for going either way, and then there is your “gut feeling” … sometimes you end up going with that. But choose and don’t look back. As Jamimom says, you can always change if things don’t work out.</p>