<p>“However, in the long run, a lot of these girls have wound up with really jerky guys who they wind up dumping. Then I turn out to be the one whose shoulder they cry on and they wish they were all like me.”</p>
<p>I mean I hear this too much, 1) how often does this really happen? and 2) IMO, thats a perfect time to let the girl know that you are the man for her.</p>