<p>For me, I have to get to know the guy before I’ll consider anything, which means that he has to become my friend first. But at the same time, (for me at least) there is a difference between ‘just a friend’ (who you actually discuss your problems with, ask for advice regarding relationships, etc.) and a ‘potentially more friend’ (when you talk to each other, it’s more flirting than serious, ex. you are constantly teasing each other, etc.) And that all comes down to whether you are attracted to them… For example, the only guys who are really on my friends list are the guys who I just am not attracted to.</p>